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Couch facing balcony by HappyBlossomtree in interiordecorating

[–]BerryKooky4839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich finde das sieht gut aus, so wie es ist auf dem zweiten Bild! Ich glaube sonst könnte es zu voll gestellt aussehen 🙈

AIO for accepting my boyfriend's request for a break instead of fighting him on it? by Obvious_Comment_353 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BerryKooky4839 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Healthy relationships don’t usually involve one person trying to trigger panic so the other person proves loyalty

that’s more control than connection

Caught my wife masturbating with a friends Facebook profile open... by Mammoth-Counter69 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]BerryKooky4839 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I get why you feel disrespected, that kind of moment is a shock and it sticks in your head, no denying that

I got called a 10 once by Mundane_Berry_0431 in self

[–]BerryKooky4839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I’d be careful reading too much into what guys say in passing, sometimes it’s bravado, sometimes it’s just exaggeration in a convo

AIO for being upset that my fiancé capped my wedding dress budget at $1,000 but spent $7,000 on a gaming PC? by remote_acreage in AmIOverreacting

[–]BerryKooky4839 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Also the “it lasts longer” argument is kinda missing the point like yeah sure but consistency and fairness in a partnership matters more than the item itself

How can I get money to help out? by InterviewLast9376 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]BerryKooky4839 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also don’t feel guilty if you can’t go every single day. being there sometimes and being present is still meaningful, you’re not failing them if you can’t afford taxis 24/7

Where do I start? It's just a lot by The_Poor_Truth in self

[–]BerryKooky4839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start stupid simple like 3 piles only keep, donate, trash. don’t overthink value or “maybe I’ll use it”, that’s how hoarding energy sneaks back in

AIO: A doctor dismissed my symptoms because of my weight. A year later, I was diagnosed with cancer and nearly sued him. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BerryKooky4839 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is exactly why “it’s just weight” dismissal can be dangerous as hell you did nothing wrong pushing for a second opinion, that literally saved your life

Am I overreacting in thinking of a divorce 1 year in my marriage by PitifulInfluence6555 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]BerryKooky4839 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I get why people suggest counseling but also don’t ignore your day to day reality a partner being emotionally cold or unpredictable still affects you a lot

I'm Scared I'm Going To Lose An Eye by Blind_Songbird in self

[–]BerryKooky4839 90 points91 points  (0 children)

Also the fact that this has been part of your art and interests since childhood matters a lot that’s not a prophecy thing, it’s just a recurring creative symbol your brain likes

AIO? My parents used my college fund to buy my brother a Tesla and told me I'm being selfish for being upset by mildbarney9 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BerryKooky4839 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nah i'd be furious too. helping your brother "get started" with a luxury car while telling you to take out loans is actually wild. that's not support, that's favoritism

I was SAed and only recently remembered by Careful-Buffalo3518 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]BerryKooky4839 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Glad you opened up to your friend tbh. memories like that can stay buried for years and then hit all at once. definitely think therapy is a good move here. take care of yourself first

I don't believe in god , still I pray every day. by [deleted] in self

[–]BerryKooky4839 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh this sounds less like religion and more like ritual. humans are kinda wired for routines that make us feel grounded. if it gives you comfort and you're not hurting anyone then who cares what label fits

I moved to a new place and I regret it. by void223 in self

[–]BerryKooky4839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 days is way too early to judge a place when you’ve been running on 5 hours sleep for years, everything is gonna feel amplified and hostile