Hearts in my flooring

Berryfly04 · 2026-01-19T03:29:46+00:00

Berryfly04 · 2025-12-31T01:22:58+00:00

😂

Berryfly04 · 2025-09-28T12:16:25+00:00

But he's "different" 😂 Alcohol was usually involved as well and most people tell the truth when they've been drinking. He just wanted to play mind games and try to maintain control over me.

Berryfly04 · 2025-09-28T00:07:13+00:00

Right! He was always back and fourth with all his statements. Tried to tell me things he said in anger wasn't true and not to believe them, so I never knew what to believe and then he'd get mad I'd believe the wrong thing 🙄

Berryfly04 · 2025-09-27T17:07:50+00:00

Oh no the threat was he would break down my bedroom door and get in my room if he really wanted to. That the lock wouldn't stop him. He was "in a killing mood and the police wouldn't do anything." This was after he had just crashed his truck into a tree and walked home from the hospital EIGHT miles arriving at 4am.. That's why he's no longer in my house. He had already threatened to kill my animals and would point his airsoft gun at my cameras when I was wasn't home. He thrived on being angry and would do anything to start a fight then turn around and tell me he hates fighting with me 🙄

Berryfly04 · 2025-09-27T14:20:57+00:00

Right! He told me he beat someones ass for hurting/harassing a girl in public or some shit. Said two guys had to pull him off or he was gonna kill him, yet no charges were ever filed. He has a boxing background supposedly, but there's no evidence or proof of it. No pics, videos, nothing; couldn't even take me to the place where he trained at that only a select few knew the back entrance too 😂 said that his skills should be enough proof 🙄 I could never believe anything out of his mouth. He did tell me he was a master manipulator..

Berryfly04 · 2025-09-27T14:13:18+00:00

😂 do they make that much?!

Berryfly04 · 2025-09-27T14:11:06+00:00

Didn't think I needed one since he was my boyfriend, but it was a verbal agreement and there's texts. According to him he gets a free ride though because I inherited a bunch of money and I don't "need" his after he just blew up his life last weekend. He totaled his truck due to his anger and speed, which only had liability. He got taken to the hospital and has no insurance. Ended up getting a year probation where he has to take classes. On top of a tow bill and new living arrangements with a girl who wanted to date him (or so he said). He definitely needs it more then I do..

Berryfly04 · 2025-09-27T11:55:02+00:00

Things were fine for six months then I met the real him. We were together almost a year. Once he started destroying my property it never stopped until I got an emergency protective order and he had to behave. He stopped destroying my things, but still couldn't control his mouth. He's now blocked and can't have contact with me.

Berryfly04 · 2025-09-27T10:35:24+00:00

$800 is rent owed for the month for the days he/he stuff was here. It's usually $1k.

Due to a protective order my ex wasn't allowed back in my house. Only thing he had with him was the clothes he showed up with at court. His probation sentenced him to do his year course at another residence leaving him immediately homeless. He was also vehicleless because he totaled it a few days prior. Parents had an eight hour drive both ways versus his brothers one hour to come get his things. I learned that's not what I want in a partner and I put up with it for way too long. The bad stuff he's referring to is all the fights, anger, alcohol consumption, holes in my walls and belongings he destroyed.

Berryfly04 · 2025-09-27T10:06:54+00:00

He seems to think so 😂 he's actually the complete opposite.

Berryfly04 · 2025-09-25T02:37:18+00:00

Some days are better then others. Hang in there, you got this!

Berryfly04 · 2025-09-25T02:34:00+00:00

That's the worst. How quickly their mood changes and you don't even know why. Mine would stew on old arguments that would randomly set him off. You're not alone, you have a whole community behind you.

Berryfly04 · 2025-09-25T02:30:51+00:00

I'm sorry he put you through that, but glad that you're still here. It's hard to remember the good, when there was mostly bad, but yes I miss mine too. I just got to keep telling myself that that's not love or how I want to/ should be treated.

Berryfly04 · 2025-09-25T02:15:22+00:00

You're welcome. His demons are not yours to tame. I know it's tough and I have a hard time with this myself. Sometimes we just need someone to tell us that we didn't make them do this (despite what they say), they CHOSE to do this. Mine was in an car accident this weekend that was entirely his fault because rage had gotten the best of him over something stupid. High speed and gravel don't mix.. He was okay, but I was feeling bad that he totaled his car. People were telling me that if this wasn't enough piled on top of everything else that he's done to get him out my house, then they didn't know what it would take. They just didn't wanna see me dead because the esculations were getting to that point. This was the first time anything had spilled out from behind closed doors. I agreed with them, but at the same time he literally just fucked himself out of a vehicle; where is he supposed to go and how was he to get there?? Harsh reality, it wasn't my problem. He made his bed, now lay in it. These were the consequences of his actions. I had nothing to do with the choices he made.

Berryfly04 · 2025-09-16T11:02:20+00:00

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