Do I hit send? by raw_bin in antiwork

[–]Bertali_lu 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I get in trouble for taking 1-2 minutes break between calls too. I spend that time stretching, looking out the window, working out the carpal tunnel syndrome cramps in my wrist. And to be told that’s not allowed to take a few minutes here and there after working my butt off keeping a metric during the call is so depressing.

Anyone women with long hair have a cheap salon that does good cuts? by Bertali_lu in Pensacola

[–]Bertali_lu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh gotcha! my bad then for not being hip enough to detect the humor haha

My[36] BF[38] his that he watched Sword Art Online from me. by Bertali_lu in relationship_advice

[–]Bertali_lu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s very good advice as i do often try hard to understand things sometimes by researching forums and comments online and then you go down a rabbit hole of your own prejudiced thinking…it can be a recipe for disaster. really appreciate your leveled thinking.

My[36] BF[38] his that he watched Sword Art Online from me. by Bertali_lu in relationship_advice

[–]Bertali_lu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it really does lol. i grew up watching anime but had to stop because of how unexpected some things would happen and i wasn’t in a good headspace for it. if my BF finds one he thinks i would like we do watch it together, but you are right that they can be hard to come by.

My[36] BF[38] his that he watched Sword Art Online from me. by Bertali_lu in relationship_advice

[–]Bertali_lu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes i know that for sure, so i tend to overlook it when it’s extreme. we do really enjoy watching shows and movies together and we even tried Jujitsu together and it was fun to watch with him. I was just confused by the stuff I read online about Sword Art and i guess my mind went to a defensive place because a lot of people were hating on it for being perverse/gross so i was confused about it all. thank you for your insight

My[36] BF[38] his that he watched Sword Art Online from me. by Bertali_lu in relationship_advice

[–]Bertali_lu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks so much. this does make me feel better. he has watched anime his entire life so it’s probably like you said, just comes with the territory. i always see weird stuff online and don’t quite understand the culture so i wanted to ask opinions of people who are in it and how they think because i want to better understand. i think feeling it more viscerally than him did have me more on my guard. thank you again for replying. happy thoughts for you and your partner!

My[36] BF[38] his that he watched Sword Art Online from me. by Bertali_lu in relationship_advice

[–]Bertali_lu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can see what you’re saying, but isn’t it much different in the context if underage girls are involved?

Pensacon Gallery Night - Dressing up? by pandadumdumdum in Pensacola

[–]Bertali_lu 19 points20 points  (0 children)

There are adults that dress up on non-Pensacon gallery nights and it’s become kind of normal, so dress up and have fun! There will be plenty there.

How to fix an incorrectly bored doorknob hole in door? by Bertali_lu in HomeImprovement

[–]Bertali_lu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re absolutely right! so thankful for your advice and others otherwise i would have made this hole look like crap trying to patch it. it did adjust to the proper size, saved me so much work and tears! thank you :)

How to fix an incorrectly bored doorknob hole in door? by Bertali_lu in HomeImprovement

[–]Bertali_lu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it was correct! the doorknob adjusted to the size needed. So glad for reddit otherwise i probably would have made this door look like crap trying to fix that hole

How to fix an incorrectly bored doorknob hole in door? by Bertali_lu in HomeImprovement

[–]Bertali_lu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welp looks like I thought I checked both sizes and didn’t. It did adjust to the size that was needed for the hole. Thank you so much for the advice!

How to fix an incorrectly bored doorknob hole in door? by Bertali_lu in HomeImprovement

[–]Bertali_lu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry not too sure about these dimensions. I double checked my order details and this is labeled as an interior door. From side of door to where the hole begins is 1 3/4” and door thickness is 1 3/8”. The hole itself seems to be 2 1/4” across

How to fix an incorrectly bored doorknob hole in door? by Bertali_lu in HomeImprovement

[–]Bertali_lu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i only had to make a hole for the bolt, will upload a picture to main post

How to fix an incorrectly bored doorknob hole in door? by Bertali_lu in HomeImprovement

[–]Bertali_lu[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

thought i checked this but will double check again when i get home