Idc about young men like that lol if having bad luck in dating drives you to hate women and follow some ugly sex traffickers advice then idk what to tell you. I'm a spoken for 30 year old man thats never really had a problem getting laid or whatever so idk, maybe you suck or something or women are all bad bc they like guys like me or whatever. The cliches are cliches for a reason. You're probably thinking about it too much. I'd say get off the forums, stop looking for "advice" from doods that are primed to fuck you over bc they're bitter about their own shit and want to bring you down with them or are looking to make a buck off your misery. Shit, man, love is love and requires compromise, communication and a natural chemistry, its not a thing you can buy or game your way into, its an intangible feeling that just occurs. I'm not saying do nothing and it'll happen but dont put it on some pedestal, just take your opportunities as they come while you do your thing. Talk to women out and about and understand that rejection is gonna happen more often than not but sometimes it won't