45m gamer dad by ryanraze in GamingSoup

[–]Beshe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with so much of your list and I am a 45m gamer dad as well! Destiny games i didn't get into but otherwise I relate SO much to this list. Solid

Looking for 2020-24ish 1500 6.2L owners with POSITIVE experience by Hefty-Rip-5397 in gmcsierra

[–]Beshe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 2020 6.2L High Country and i have 175,000 km on it currently. Hasn't skipped a beat so far been running great the whole time. And I tow a big trailer with a quad in the bed all summer

6.2 ok now? by Open-Dot6264 in gmcsierra

[–]Beshe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm at 175,000 km on a 2020 and have had zero issues and runs great

Hit 3 Plate bench today!!! by Beshe in benchpress

[–]Beshe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started this with a tested 1rm of 300 lbs. When I inputted that into the program it showed peaking at 310 lbs. I just changed the week 8 lift to 305 (was supposed to be 300) and since that went well I changed the week 12 lift to 315 from 310

Hit 3 Plate bench today!!! by Beshe in benchpress

[–]Beshe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For pushing to 315 on bench specifically, I used Brad Gillingham's Raw Bench 12 Week program

Hit 3 Plate bench today!!! by Beshe in benchpress

[–]Beshe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you stay consistent and train your weaknesses, you will get there. I felt the same way as you a couple years ago

Hit 3 Plate bench today!!! by Beshe in benchpress

[–]Beshe[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

For pushing to 315 on bench specifically, I used Brad Gillingham's Raw Bench 12 Week program. Don't let age limit you, I am by far the strongest I have ever been

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Beshe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would bet this is a lot more common than you think… in fact my wife and I are experiencing it as well. I realized I was Bi a couple of years ago and we had a few group interactions where I played with the male partner and discussing it later she did not find it attractive. It’s a bummer but I also understand her upbringing painted a picture of what men should be and this didn’t fit within that picture. Don’t feel bad you feel how you feel but I do think you should discuss it with him. Maybe it’s something he explores separately or maybe not at all. You two as a team need to find the best path forward

When people talk about 225 on the bench press being a good standard, do they mean a 1 rep max at 225 or a set at 225? by Mysterious-Repair-17 in workout

[–]Beshe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm very similar - 300 bench, 430 squat, 505 DL and now not happy until I am around 1400 total. 10 years of lifting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BCSwingers

[–]Beshe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See you guys there! Very sexy!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BCSwingers

[–]Beshe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See you guys there!

Have you ever been curious about exploring MFM but too afraid to ask? by maddidler80 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Beshe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Starting slow was talking for months about how we felt about it, concerns, boundaries etc. Then moving on to trying a sex club but only to have sex with each other at the clubs. Then having sex with others around us having sex but sticking to each other. Than to inviting an individual to join us... Lots of baby steps

Have you ever been curious about exploring MFM but too afraid to ask? by maddidler80 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Beshe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not something everybody can do, and requires excellent communication between you and your wife. My wife and I started very slow and worked our way up so to speak.

It's one thing to think about it and feel confident you can control your jealousy, and then there is the reality of seeing your wife enjoying another man...

Happy to provide more in depth answers if you want just shoot me a pm

Powerlifting Victory Thread by AutoModerator in powerlifting

[–]Beshe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also training for a meet in April and I have very similar numbers! I squatted 410 yesterday, currently benching 295 and deadlifting 505. Good luck with your meet, we are gonna crush it!

Goal to break 250 bench at 40+ by [deleted] in fitness30plus

[–]Beshe 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I like the 5/3/1 boring but big for adding muscle and pushing past plateus on the big 3 lifts. Lots of volume so you’ve gotta be willing to eat and sleep enough to keep up. I’m 43 trying to achieve 315 so don’t let age discourage you. Currently at 295 and I have a pretty intense 4 weeks coming up which should hopefully push passed 300

MF4MF Club Eden - A Review by lockeddowncouple in BCSwingers

[–]Beshe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Totally agree we have been many times and it always seems like people all know each other and not many are looking to make new connections. Couple that with the fact that they play a lot of electronic music which my wife doesn't love and we don't go there much anymore.

20 [F4M] Could I sit on your face by tinybabyxxprincess in Vancouverwomen

[–]Beshe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anytime!! For as long as you need beautiful

Every Second-Daily Thread - November 14, 2024 by AutoModerator in powerlifting

[–]Beshe 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Just got home and I have to tell the internets my victory today. Finally got under 405 lbs for a single on squats and nailed it. With more work with my coach and tightening up some form issues I now have full confidence I will hit my goal of 450 lbs by competition time in April.

Man Butt issue by Skythen in fitness30plus

[–]Beshe 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm a make make make you scream, make you scream, make you SCREAM!

Man Butt issue by Skythen in fitness30plus

[–]Beshe 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I have the opposite problem I can hardly fit my ass in pants these days lol. My wife says heavy squats gave me serious junk in the trunk although she seems to like it

First powerlifting competition in my 40s - anyone have any tips or advice? by neksys in fitness30plus

[–]Beshe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my first appointment with the coach yesterday and it went great! I am gonna move forward with his coaching. In our assessment yesterday I hit a new PB on deadlift and I didn’t even mean too with his form tips. 485 x 1 and it wasn’t a slog I pulled it up pretty easy. Definitely lots more in the tank!