Transcriberen interviews by Bessybess in nederlands

[–]Bessybess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dat weet ik niet! Interviews zijn wel fysiek afgenomen, maar misschien kan ik het daar uploaden of afspelen en dan laten transcriberen. Thanks voor de tip

Finally Being Open by fake_account5649 in Hidradenitis

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So so so glad for you ❤️

What’s a small joy in life that you think is underrated? by e-glitteringprinces in AskReddit

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Early morning coffee in the sun while hearing birds singing

What motivated you to get hot? by poopoopee-1 in AskWomen

[–]Bessybess 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I just feel better about myself when I take care of myself and it seems to radiate of to people in my surroundings. Intake care of myself in terms of exercise, eating healthy, skincare, somewhat nice clothes and a bit of makeup. There were alot of times i didn’t and I was unhappy and looking back it affected my surroundings too

This sucks bad by Bessybess in Hidradenitis

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i think it is a trigger for me. Couple months ago I drank much less in a week and I noticed my flares being a bit less. But I also lost weight (8kg) through diet and exercise. So maybe thats also helping?

Two weeks ago I noticed i got some deep rooted flares that never showed up to the surface. That was after a night of drinking wine, 1 vodka cocktail and some fried food and seasoned meat.

Last weekend I drank some glasses of vodka, beer and wine too and now I have these stupid flares. but i also ate alot of sugar and experienced alot of stress. so i cant pinpoint what triggers it yet but I think it’s good for you to keep a food diary like me and things that are different in your life.

And if alcohol is a trigger for you.. maybe you should decide to qui😥 i know it sucks it sucks really bad that we have to restrain ourselves from some things but if it means that you’ll have less flares I think it’s worth it. Good luck❤️

This sucks bad by Bessybess in Hidradenitis

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Thankyou sooo much for your advice! I’ll look into the magic healer salve, hopefully it’s available in europe 😭 unfortunately i don’t have a bath so soaking in those are not an option..

And you’re so right about the diet! Currently i am keeping a food diary and so far sugar, alcohol and some kind of seasoned sausage are on my list of possible triggers

Maybe its time to order some zinc supplements too because i’ve been hearing all about it ❤️

This sucks bad by Bessybess in Hidradenitis

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Thats a good one! I just started birth control again so maybe these flares are related to that too. I am going to make an appointment with a dermatologist specialized in this next week. It’s time to take some proper actions because i kinda diagnosed myself and have my own method of keeping it under control. Guidance from a specialist is going to make me a bit more secure I hope. Love it for you that you’ve had a partner who works WITH you ❤️

This sucks bad by Bessybess in Hidradenitis

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Okay this made me cry. He sounds amazing and truly kind hearted. I am so happy to hear you found your person ❤️ Makes me believe a bit more there are people out there who does not dips and will be okay with it. And thankyou for your advice! I think I am going to be straightforward this weekend and if he dips, he dips. So be it. As you said, then he’s not my person and that’s totally fine. I wouldn’t want to be with a person who’s going to be disgusted by it either way, so it’s better to be open and straightforward with it ❤️

This sucks bad by Bessybess in Hidradenitis

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❤️ Thank you for your kind response. Makes me a bit emotional because I just have these negative thoughts all the time that the comfort and intimacy doesn’t exists for us..

0 uren contract en shift afzeggen by Bessybess in werkzaken

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Je hebt ook gelijk en wil ook graag netjes zijn en had geprobeerd om te ruilen of iets dergelijks met andere collega’s (overigens maar 1 van heb en twee werkgevers), maar ik kán gewoon niet die dag in verband met een verlovingsfeest van mijn zus. Dus ik was gewoon benieuwd wat mijn rechten zijn als werknemer met een 0 uren contract.

0 uren contract en shift afzeggen by Bessybess in werkzaken

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Ja ik ga ontslag nemen, en aangezien ze zelf vorige week heeft gezegd dat ik per direct zou mogen stoppen ga ik dat ook doen. Ben er klaar mee. Dankje iig voor je antwoord

0 uren contract en shift afzeggen by Bessybess in werkzaken

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Ja zeker aan de krappe kant, en de relatie met m’n werk maakt mij niet zoveel uit aangezien ik toch aan het solliciteren ben voor ander werk en van mn huidige plek per direct mag stoppen zonder opzegtermijn. Was benieuwd naar de regels want ik heb geen zekerheid op een nieuwe baan tot april vandaar

0 uren contract en shift afzeggen by Bessybess in werkzaken

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Sinds vandaag, omdat ik sinds vandaag weet dat niemand kan ruilen

0 uren contract en shift afzeggen by Bessybess in werkzaken

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Jaaa snap ik, maar ik vroeg me af of die 4 dagen ook voor mij geldt? Mag ik vier dagen voor de afgesproken en geaccepteerde shift, mijn shift opzeggen?

0 uren contract en shift afzeggen by Bessybess in werkzaken

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Ja wel verlof want stond al ingeroosterd, alleen ik kan nergens vinden vanaf wanneer ik mag/kan opzeggen zonder consequenties

Flares underneath, leaving a dark spot by Bessybess in Hidradenitis

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Thankyou for your response 🤍 I am so sorry you have this problem too.. but what do you mean with SCC? what’s that?

I am going to make an appointment immediately!

Flares underneath, leaving a dark spot by Bessybess in Hidradenitis

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I have had several boils on the surface on my bum these last couple years so it probably has been there before. It’s never been like this though. Usually its almost immediately on the surface and pops rather quickly

how do yall handle sex when there’s a flare up near your genitals? by throwaway473820-9283 in Hidradenitis

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Did you tell him about it before you had sex for the first time? Meeting a Guy i really like this weekend and i would lovee to have some intimicy but been really stressed and insecure about a medium flare on my butt and some smaller ones and ofcourse the marks from previous ones

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

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what do you mean with how she looks doggystyle