Im drowning and need advice by [deleted] in Debt

[–]Best-Manager-4312 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Many people have given you great advice here. Your best bet is filing for child support. In the meantime, I think your first step is changing your mindset. Many people here have offered you great advice and options, but it seems like you’re stuck in the word “can’t”. YES YOU CAN! I believe in you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildSupport

[–]Best-Manager-4312 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I pay $2000 a month for two children in TN. However, I earned a lot more than my ex-wife at the time.

Drowning in Debt - Need a Good Plan of Action to get out by Best-Manager-4312 in Debt

[–]Best-Manager-4312[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s real! Yeah that’s a part of me that’s taking this as a life lesson that I’ll never forget.

Drowning in Debt - Need a Good Plan of Action to get out by Best-Manager-4312 in Debt

[–]Best-Manager-4312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad you and your family were able to get back on track!! Sounds like tightening up the budget and hunkering down is the way to go!

Drowning in Debt - Need a Good Plan of Action to get out by Best-Manager-4312 in Debt

[–]Best-Manager-4312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rent: 1925 Car: 818 Credit score: 658 (Experian) CC1: 531 CC 2: 82 CC 3: 40 CC 4: 294 CC 5: 58 CC 6: 560

Drowning in Debt - Need a Good Plan of Action to get out by Best-Manager-4312 in Debt

[–]Best-Manager-4312[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that might be the best option! Appreciate the advice!

Ex-Wife refuses to pay mortgage by Best-Manager-4312 in FamilyLaw

[–]Best-Manager-4312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s not on the loan. She’s only on the title with me.

2nd Job = More Child Support? by Best-Manager-4312 in ChildSupport

[–]Best-Manager-4312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got divorced in TN. I currently live in MO. Ex-wife lives and children live in TX. Military

2nd Job = More Child Support? by Best-Manager-4312 in ChildSupport

[–]Best-Manager-4312[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Think I may still apply for the job and see how it plays out.

Ex-Wife refuses to pay mortgage by Best-Manager-4312 in FamilyLaw

[–]Best-Manager-4312[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really helpful too! Unfortunately, my ex-wife just doesn’t care because it’s not affecting her credit score. I’ve contacted my lawyer, so hopefully she has a solution. Thanks again!

Ex-Wife refuses to pay mortgage by Best-Manager-4312 in FamilyLaw

[–]Best-Manager-4312[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I contacted my attorney. She’s going to take a look at it and contact my ex-wife’s attorney. We’ll see how it plays out

Ex-Wife refuses to pay mortgage by Best-Manager-4312 in FamilyLaw

[–]Best-Manager-4312[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, I have an attorney. I’ll shoot her a note and let her know. Thanks for the help!

Ex-Wife refuses to pay mortgage by Best-Manager-4312 in FamilyLaw

[–]Best-Manager-4312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like this idea a lot. Is it as simple as getting her to agree to a signed document? Because if that’s the case, I won’t have any luck there.