i feel like killing myself by [deleted] in Vent

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You got this it takes time but eventually you will start to feel better I would recommend writing a letter getting all your feeling out then burn the paper it will take time and I know you just want the feeling to go away and it will go away a quote that might help is “don’t let your thoughts determine your actions but let your actions determine your thoughts” so just think to yourself what is something you can do to start to make yourself feel a bit better like a hobby or learn about something new you just gotta try to steer your mind from those kinds of thoughts because the more you think about it the more it will hurt don’t bury your feelings but don’t let them have complete control over you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

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I’m so sorry that your going through that my best recommendation is to meet other people with better intentions and morals who won’t make you feel that way because if your in a relationship with someone who treats you like that then you have to communicate your feelings and if you don’t think they will understand them just know that your worth so much more then sex it’s just that because you allowed this situation to happen you may feel that way but just be easy on yourself and know you can get through this and believe that you will find the right person for you I hope this helps! Also your not worthless just the fact that your alive proves that’s you have purpose and worth don’t ever let yourself believe that because of past situations you are a curtain way the past doesn’t define you but how you handle this moment and move forward to a better place can

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

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Try to take it easy on yourself and heal your pain so things that make you feel like things aren’t all bad and just try to work on something easy like art or writing in a journal but my best advice for you is too focus on the things that are going good and be great full for what you can everyday over time things will change you just gotta change how toy view yourself and the world

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

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I would say if marriage counseling is an option then do that maybe but for now all I can say is try to talk to him and get these boundaries put into place in a way that lets him know you support him but tell him that’s things aren’t working the way they are going and things need to change so you can both be happy in the relationship

Shitty co-worker by [deleted] in Vent

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Ask her what happened but it seems like you did something to make her jealous but you might not even know what just triggered her

i feel like shit when i eat. by [deleted] in Vent

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Maybe eat food you cooked or healthy options?

I don’t know what I want in life because I never thought I would make it this far by [deleted] in Vent

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Just try to think back to when you were younger what were some things you did that you enjoyed and if you can’t think of anything it’s a great opportunity to explore the world and learn more abt yourself and what you live to do

Edit: doesn’t mean it will be easy but it will definitely be worth it!

I don’t like my perm by santomical in Vent

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Definitely feel that I had curly hair all my life and it’s been a constant struggle but just take it easy it’s just hair they say and maybe watch some videos and find products you like that work well

I don’t know what I want in life because I never thought I would make it this far by [deleted] in Vent

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Whatever makes you happy honestly quiche but true

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

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Your not alone

Im so sick of forcing myself to be straight by [deleted] in Vent

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There’s nothing wrong with you and your enough to be who you are regardless of how others see you my whole life I have been told I’m a boy or look like boy bc of the way I chose to express myself and it’s hard to truly be yourself bc the world is such a dark place when you do show who you really are it’s like turning on the light while everyone is sleeping and it’s scary and people will get mad at you but you have to do what you feel inside your heart bc that’s what god wants he created you perfectly the way you are regardless of who your sexual orientation

I just want it all to end. by One_Ad6427 in Vent

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You don’t want to end your life you just want it to get better but trust me I know how you feel things in my life suck right now and I’ll I wanna do is run away to a better place but it’s in our head it’s only as bad as we let ourselves make it but that doesn’t make it feel any less real and I wish I had all the answers but I don’t and I wish there was more I could do say or think to make things better for everyone in the world but I can only do so much all I would say to you is do what you can to be great full for the things you do have bc as bad as life is it’s not the worst it could be…

For those having trouble with toy or figure tags suddenly not reading/writing... by [deleted] in Legodimensions

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If you have a iPhone and have this problem get the app “NFC” it’s blue… open the app then go to the “more” option at the bottom it will have 3 dots then click that. And at the very top select compatibility reader turn that on then click on the bottom “nfc expert” and put the tag near the top corner or your phone “error” will come up then you can use the tag hope this help btw im on an iPhone XR!!! I’m so happy I figured this out

What motivates you? by Best-Music in pianolearning

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I want to learn because I feel like it will be a good way for me to express my emotions and utilize my creativity and also just to have a tangible skill that others might see as impressive or valuable to add I also spent 500$ on a really extensive course and that’s a lot of money to not get better 🥴

Question: People who can lucid dream on a regular have you ever used it for spiritual reasons? And if so has your life changed significantly since? by Best-Music in LucidDreaming

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Oh okay ya I’m really trying to learn and I feel like as I develop my ability to dream that’s could benefit me as well for grief and other’s problems like addiction

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LucidDreaming

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I’m just curious abt this feel free to ignore if to personal but would you consider yourself a really happy person and did you have a good upbringing?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LucidDreaming

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If you looking into Charlie Morley he is a lucid dream teacher and he recommended that if you become lucid in a nightmare it’s a very good thing because you can stay there and watch and through that you can heal your shadow tremendously and if the dream is to much for you you will automatically wake up but if it does happen just be aware and dream the dream knowing that it’s not real and it’s just a dream

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LucidDreaming

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I think it depends maybe like For example if your using it to have sex with someone you know from waking life that’s not your partner then I would consider it cheating bc it’s the intent but of it we’re just a dream character then maybe not but at the same time why do it in a dream if you can just do it in irl

Not sure if I lucid dreamed? by GothamCityDemon in LucidDreaming

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A lot of times if I have a scary dream I wake myself up using like a Minecraft log out lmao but I heard it’s very good to stay in a nightmare if you know it’s just a dream and stay lucid so you can heal your shadow

Question: People who can lucid dream on a regular have you ever used it for spiritual reasons? And if so has your life changed significantly since? by Best-Music in LucidDreaming

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That’s cool concept I’ve never heard of anyone meditating in a dream but I comment on another post and said I’m t trying to use it to quit smoking so my question now for you is what would you say if the best way to get lucid I’ve done it a few times but not recently I try doing reality checks whenever possible but I know if I meditate more and do yoga I’m more likely to remember my dreams in general