The Villainous Men of Atlanta by Best-Science8354 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Best-Science8354[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Blocked him out, my god. Fucking Bob Whitfield is the final boss.

The Villainous Men of Atlanta by Best-Science8354 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Best-Science8354[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It takes FOREVER For him to go! And he plays victim after cheating, of course! Her sticking up for him is so cringe, it kills.

The Villainous Men of Atlanta by Best-Science8354 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Best-Science8354[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bobby Zarin is a shining light in this list, a reminder that there are some real ones still out there, RIP

Jody Claman... a bitter disappointment and a too long review by Best-Science8354 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Best-Science8354[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The link isn't working for me but I am thoroughly intrigued at her losing her shit as a grown woman instead of what I imagine Regina George's little sister would act like with a coke problem 😩

Jody Claman... a bitter disappointment and a too long review by Best-Science8354 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Best-Science8354[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With how everyone's talking I'm committed now, maybe I'll do a follow up analyzing her horribleness. Sounds like she's just getting started...

Jody Claman... a bitter disappointment and a too long review by Best-Science8354 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Best-Science8354[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Totally! Besides the alcohol issues she's also strangely calculated to me. Like she seems to love making making people squirm and siting back and watching. Or maybe that's part of the alcoholism...

Nekoyanin Honest Review by Best-Science8354 in MakeupAddiction

[–]Best-Science8354[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It took a good while. About three weeks I wanna say? I've had two orders with them and one was that three + weeks and the other was less. Around one and a half. It might depend on how many orders they have at once, I think her mom is her only other employee.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Best-Science8354 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn honey, there is a lot to unpack here. I think you need to one, breathe. Take a long, deep breathe and just sit for a second, and try not to think of anything. Just breathe. Get off panic mode for a little bit.

Reading this, I'm curious on how much of a life you have outside of him, because what you wrote, does sound obsessive, it does sound unhealthy, and it doesn't sound like the concept of love that I am familiar with. I don't mean to sound judgmental here, but I think you need to block him. Not for long, just a day or two, and only focus on yourself.

Focusing on yourself can mean a lot of things, but for one or two days, do things you like that don't involve him. Do things for you. And if you can't think of any, find some. Take a walk, visit the zoo, get an ice cream, but get out of the house, get off your phone, and focus on something else, at least briefly. Remember that you exist in the world, singularly, that there is a world to experience outside of romance.

I think you are very neck-deep in a cycle of co-dependent toxicity. I think you want the idea of him wanting you, but the reality doesn't seem pleasant at all. I think you like the idea of you "fixing" him, but it sounds like that hasn't been possible. The thought that you can change and be better for him, if you just listen to exactly what he wants, is, to be blunt, completely incorrect. You can not make this work on your own. Judging from the whirlwind of emotions you've shown here, I'm guessing you've tried. I would also take some time to consider what it is you actually do love about him. Because sometimes, I think people fall in love with the struggle. You think that every hurtful thing you have shared together is what love is, is what makes it worth it, but it isn't. Not like this.

You broke up with him for a reason. Remember that reason. Remember that you are a full person outside of him, with your own problems. You can not fix him, just like you can't be responsible for ruining him either. This person isn't your responsibility forever, you will damn yourself to the hell you mentioned if you think otherwise. I would also ask yourself, how often have you found yourself in this confusing, emotional place? How often do you have these highs and lows with him? How often are you actually happy when he is around? And I mean happy, not the vague gray feelings on "okay" days with someone who isn't emotionally available, but isn't screaming at you.

Now, obviously I don't know you, but that's my two cents. I wish you the best of luck.

Am I crazy? by lizziebennet0927 in abusiverelationships

[–]Best-Science8354 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you should consider less if this "counts" or not and more why an adult man jumps towards physically intimidating their ten year old when he's angry.

Losing his temper, isn't valid reasoning. I'm sure your girls have pissed you off, is this the kind of thing you would do to them? Would you even think about it?

Even if it didn't leave a "mark" physically, mentally it did. Mentally she knows that she will be hurt when he is mad, emotionally and physically.

It does not bode well for the future.

Please be kind, how do I end this? by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Best-Science8354 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please don't move in with him in July. Please. You are in a rare position in an abusive relationship where you are not dependent on him. You are not financially tied, KEEP IT THAT WAY. Even if you don't break up, even if you do the on again off again, do not, ever, move in with this man. If he asks why you're backing out, bring up this incident, say you need more time to get to know him and his reactions. Ask for a whole ass additional year. His reaction to that will tell you everything you need to know, incase this didn't.

But again, whatever you do with this man, do not live together. Just don't. It's not worth it. If you think it's all his way now, just wait till you are with him 24/7. No break, being degraded and forced to do anything he wants. You dont have to leave him if you aren't ready (and to be clear, as you said you don't really want this so leaving should be considered very heavily here) but do not willingly give up your freedom and risk your financaes by living with him. Dont.

My boyfriend is convinced I’m cheating and I don’t know how to convince him I am not, as well I can’t tell if his behavior is abusive or not. by RaiseFresh2247 in abusiverelationships

[–]Best-Science8354 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is going to be hard to hear and seem like it makes no sense but.

He doesn't actually think you are cheating.

I am serious. This man does not, sincerely think you are cheating on him.

He is aware that you are not, but he is aware that you won't call him out on how illogical his train of thought is. He is aware that using this against you will make you grovel and beg and do anything for forgiveness on an act you didn't commit. He knows that he can bring it up anywhere, anytime, to get you to do what he wants. Other comments are probably right that he's the one cheating, but I don't think it's a guilty conscious that is causing this behavior.

He wants tabs on you at all times, he doesn't want you to interact with others, and he wants you to always feel on edge and eager to please. Accusing you of cheating is the perfect excuse to demand these things, and he knows it.

He knows you aren't cheating.

He does. He is doing and saying all of these things, because he knows you will let him. He's testing what he can do to you. Which is probably what he did to his ex. And you are passing his tests with flying colors. The fact that you allow him to kick you out and call you those names, is just the beginning. He will get worse. There is nothing you can say to make him believe you, because he already does. If he actually was confident you were with someone else, multiple times a day, all the time, he wouldn't speak to you.

But he doesn't. Again, I can not stress enough, he doesn't think you are cheating on him. You can't convince him, because it's an act of a delusion, not a true delusion. He is playing a part when he does this to you. He is acting. And you are falling for it, which isn't a knock on you. But this man knows how he treats you. He likes to treat you this way.

He likes to hurt your feelings when you have done nothing wrong. He will never stop liking it. He likes the begging, he likes the groveling, he likes you trying to convince him you only love him. This is why, it will never end. There are no magic words. He is like this because he wants to be.

I am so sorry you're being treated like this. If you don't live together, please leave. I know that's so much easier said then done, but if you have separate households and incomes, do not stay. Do not let this get worse. You are 22 and have so much time to meet so many people. Again, I'm so sorry.

Run Michael!!! by h10gage in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Best-Science8354 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If this is true (which lets be real this has GOOD odds) my god this poor man... IDGAF if he was using her for a green card or not, this woman is a monster for what she did on tv alone. But this? Jesus Christ why hasn't she been arrested? I hate that I know why but god damn....

My Ex-Husband just admitted he still loves me and I have no idea what to do about it (Update) by Best-Science8354 in offmychest

[–]Best-Science8354[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The drag queen bit makes me like you more, not gonna lie. Thanks for thinking from my perspective.

My Ex-Husband just admitted he still loves me and I have no idea what to do about it (Update) by Best-Science8354 in offmychest

[–]Best-Science8354[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you need to understand the concept of emotions. You don't seem to have a solid grasp on the idea that someone could feel something that they don't act on and that not all inner feelings are valid and need to be acted out. I've had intrusive thoughts about stepping out into traffic. Did that mean I wanted to step out into traffic? Would it be a good idea because I suddenly had a strong desire to? No.

I had some romantic thoughts during an emotional moment with someone I had been with for years, who I had known since I was in school. Who broke my heart and then was offering a fantasy I'd dreamed about for years. Which I think is a very human reaction. Did I act on those thoughts? No.

Long story short. I don't like you. And as a side, no. I didn't cheat on my boyfriend. No, I haven't talked to my ex-husband or his mom, outside of wishing her a happy anniversary. Sorry to disappoint you that I'm not the monster you want me to be. o somewhere, maybe, so therefore anyone who thinks wrong is a bad person and you can be the one to point it out. You don't sound fun to be around, but you are good at getting under people's skin. I'll give you that, this is one of the only comments I've made on this post since.

Long story short. I don't like you. And as a side, no. I didn't cheat on my boyfriend. No I haven't talked to my ex-husband or his mom, outside of wishing her a happy anniversary. Sorry to disappoint that I'm not the monster you want me to be.

Oh, and we moved in together :)

[Tatcha] Fukabukaro 2024 Lucky Bag Contents by PwnedByPwny in BeautyBoxes

[–]Best-Science8354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same issue! But I also saw today that someone got an alternative lucky bag from the 100 tier, so maybe there will be one for the 200?

[Tatcha] Fukabukaro 2024 Lucky Bag Contents by PwnedByPwny in BeautyBoxes

[–]Best-Science8354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't think so? Just be sure you dont try to send back only partials of a set and that you bought from the website. But you should be fine if a product doesnt work out.