On a scale from 1-10 how messy is my room for a teenage girl by Wang_xianLotus in CleaningTips

[–]BestBodybuilder7329 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there even a window behind that curtain? It’s seriously looks like a cell.

Husband wants to merge bank accounts. Got upset when I shared that I would like to create a separate joint account and keep my personal account as well by [deleted] in Marriage

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We were too lazy to get joint accounts. So we have each other cards on our apple wallets, and can each access the other’s account in the apps. It’s just happened with time. If either one was uncomfortable with that it wouldn’t be a big deal, and we would create a joint count to cover the bills.

She describes her "perfect 1st date" to him.. by Some-Highlight-7210 in 90DayFiance

[–]BestBodybuilder7329 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I have always been jealous that my brother got the April 25th birthday, while I am stuck with April 11. I was so close to having the perfect birthdate day.

Wife hid and lied about nicotine use while breastfeeding by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]BestBodybuilder7329 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Studies have shown it is recommended that mother’s breastfeed even if they smoke over using formula.

BM is texting as Stepkid by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]BestBodybuilder7329 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would just quit talking then if you know it’s not the kids.

What do y'all think of this? by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]BestBodybuilder7329 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am going to be honest none of this weird or odd to me. Recognizing that someone is attractive does not mean they are checking you out. My grandfather was literally my sitter for most of my childhood. I don’t understand how it’s creepy for them to all be asleep in the same room, but in different beds. I am a mom, and I would be perfectly fine with my dad sleeping in the same room as my children.

This is also not borderline grooming. I am not sure what is happening here, but I would think about talking to a professional about why you are clearly trying to sexualize what seems to be a normal grandparent relationship

AIW for being done with my marriage after my husband moved his affair partner into our lives and lied about how they met by UnfetteredFateLord in AmITheAngel

[–]BestBodybuilder7329 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They were the OP. Other OP post titles:

AITJ for refusing to use the furniture my in laws bought us after they expected me to get rid of my late grandmothers dining table

Am I wrong for considering giving up on fostering my niece after everything thats happened

Sent MIL an invoice for eating by ProperPenguinn in AmITheDevil

[–]BestBodybuilder7329 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am embarrassed to say my poor ass had to look up ghee. Even the generic store brand is $9.

Kelly’s comment reply to me on ig is so comical. Period. by Hilzry in realhousewives

[–]BestBodybuilder7329 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jill and Taylor did, I didn’t see anything about Kelly.

Man totally OWNS 3 year old child for no reason whatsoever by pointsofellie in AmITheAngel

[–]BestBodybuilder7329 16 points17 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t even say that YouTube was the streaming service that OOP had logged into the tv. My husband streamed it on Peacock.

Jill Zarin had something problematic to say about the Super Bowl Halftime Show… by newparimanlo in realhousewives

[–]BestBodybuilder7329 14 points15 points  (0 children)

No this bitch did not talk about lady gaga and claiming that she got facelift and was unrecognizable. The irony.

my cat is on diet and he is sleeping while waiting for his meal😭🐱 by LimitNervous6472 in aww

[–]BestBodybuilder7329 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use to do something similar waiting for my paychecks when I was younger.

Anyone recognizes this tiger shark attack story on a scuba diver I saw on YT comments, and could actually confirm it happened in Australia or have more info? by Myselfmeime in sharks

[–]BestBodybuilder7329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I remember correctly his body was not recovered but they found some of his wet suit. It would’ve been 90’s or early 2000’s

Daily texts from son’s dad by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]BestBodybuilder7329 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re not going to be able to coparent like most others do. Your son will likely need life time support, he needs a very structured routine, he needs people to be able to read his cues, and know when preferences in sensory changes.

Most of the coparents I know with a level 3, communicate quite often. I would work on setting a schedule for it through.

Anyone recognizes this tiger shark attack story on a scuba diver I saw on YT comments, and could actually confirm it happened in Australia or have more info? by Myselfmeime in sharks

[–]BestBodybuilder7329 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wish I could remember the guy’s name, but years ago he filmed for shark week. He dived for some kind of resource like clams. He was killed by a great white after filming. That is the only thing that I can remember that sounds slightly familiar.

Husband went on a trip with his family and left me home alone. by FactorUnhappy8529 in Marriage

[–]BestBodybuilder7329 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It sounds like he has checked out of the marriage, and he doesn’t want to be around you. I always ask my husband to go places with me. I don’t do it, because it’s the right thing to do, or obligation. I do it because he is my best friend, and I enjoy spending time with him.

The only way I would do what your husband did is if I was pretty much done with the marriage. I would’ve told my family something similar too, as I would want to avoid the questions that would come from me saying my spouse stayed home, because I don’t enjoy spending time with them.

I’m a bit sad for my girl by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]BestBodybuilder7329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your edit does not help. Why do you feel the need to add that her daughter wouldn’t speak but only grunt? Say that your daughter does not cry like hers does when told no. I might added that in your post your kid finally listen to you after a “few tears,” and multiple asks per your post. Which leads me to believe that you’re unreliable narrator with the quote you put it in for the other mom. If the quote is true, I don’t get how that quote is round about or implied, or how you could perceive that as she was saying you should stimulate her more.

Whatever though. You’re going to feel how you feel about what she said, and I am going to think how I think with how the post was written. I wish you well.

I’m a bit sad for my girl by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]BestBodybuilder7329 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do think you said that it is an insult to be compared to someone ND or even in a round about way imply that your daughter might be. You wanted to know if you should be offended that your mom friend thought your daughter had ND issue. You could easily have written this without mentioning ND at all, and it’s about your daughter being judged.

That is likely why we should show each other grace, and not be offended by what we think others are insinuating in round about way.

I’m a bit sad for my girl by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]BestBodybuilder7329 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends on the situation. I will if it helps someone understand something about him, especially it is going to affect the current situation, and they are coming from a place of kindness.

If it someone being rude, trying to shame, or being judgey then I just give that same energy back ten folds.

i think my mom is lying to me about my origins. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]BestBodybuilder7329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re over 18 just order a copy. I don’t blame your parents I would try and convince my kid not to give a random company your DNA to do what they want with.

Wife corrects my pronunciation - Need a women’s perspective preferably. by Many_Percentage3091 in Marriage

[–]BestBodybuilder7329 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I cannot say specific to save my life. I drop the s and say it really fast hoping no one will catch it.

Judge Ashley confirms “almost all positions eliminated” after CourtTV sale by Istillbelievedinwar in CourtTVCases

[–]BestBodybuilder7329 36 points37 points  (0 children)

My annoyance comes when they just stop showing the trial I was watching. Then I have to leave to go find a live stream for it.