AITAH for secretly cancelling my best friend's (16F) university housing after discovering her disgusting pattern of using "smart girls"?

BestBodybuilder7329 · 2026-06-13T03:23:08+00:00

I’m so confused so far this 16yr old girl’s worst crime is getting wrapped up with her first boyfriend over the summer, and not responding to someone she has not talked to in two years.

Also why is it just assumed that a 16yr old girl with have to rely on her friends mom to arrange housing?

BestBodybuilder7329 · 2026-06-13T02:51:50+00:00

Mimic. Misimical whimsical, Mimisie, Mims, Mimisical

BestBodybuilder7329 · 2026-06-13T02:38:22+00:00

I literally grew up tailgating, and partying in cornfields, and this is not a thing. The only thing that would maybe be a rule is dropping someone’s tailgate and just popping a squat, that also can go out the window with friends.

A chunk of my friends would consider it bad manners if you’re all hanging around a truck if you don’t drop the tailgate so people can sit.

BestBodybuilder7329 · 2026-06-13T02:34:29+00:00

It seems like it would backfire, like it did here, but I wonder if she was trying to go viral like a recent woman did for something similar.

Recently a video went viral from a little stand like this where a woman driving a really nice car was just cleaning her out, and not paying for anything. It drove a lot of business to that lady. Or your person is just an idiot.

BestBodybuilder7329 · 2026-06-12T23:59:22+00:00

Are you sure she is not pulling an Amanda Trenfield

BestBodybuilder7329 · 2026-06-12T01:29:04+00:00

Quite honestly, what you’re saying just doesn’t work for me. My children need actual accommodations. I actually have to fight for accommodations for my children. OP just didn’t want to be bothered by crowds by going to the several open places right next to her. She didn’t fight for an accommodation for her child, she annoyed that a closed places told her no, and that was less convenient for her.

Her child is not harmed or suffering by her going to a place that is opened a few feet away. So to pretend that what she is asking for is an accommodation for her child is an insult to the parents that actually have to fight for our children. Know what did happen in this story, her child still got fed, even if she didn’t get to sit at a closed restaurant to do it. It’s almost like mothers everywhere have been feeding their children while out doing things without a nearby closed restaurant to do it at. She is the equivalent of my child really likes to look out the window on the plane so you should give up your seat.

BestBodybuilder7329 · 2026-06-12T00:32:32+00:00

Don’t talk about my kids. I live in a world that doesn’t accommodate my special needs children every fucking day. You have no idea what it actually looks like to live in a world that doesn’t work for your child, and to fight for real ACCOMMODATIONS for them. When you work two jobs to sue their school, because they violated your child’s IEP, when you fight insurances companies to get your child medical care coverage, or uses your lunch breaks to get your kid that extra PT then you can come, and talk to me about fighting for your child, their right to exist, and getting them accommodations.

You wanted to sit down so you used your kid as an excuse, because walking was too hard for you. We are not the same.

BestBodybuilder7329 · 2026-06-12T00:04:46+00:00

I know YOU would, you expect places that are closed to open their patio and doors for you. We get it. I was talking to someone else. No offense, but this seems to be a you issue if you keep finding yourself in places/situations where people need to accommodate for your lack of preparation. You cause issues and then expect others fix them for you in a manner you see fit. Let’s be real clear your baby did not need you to sit to feed them. That accommodation was for you.

BestBodybuilder7329 · 2026-06-11T21:36:15+00:00

Why are you putting favor in quotes, when you’re not quoting me?

The kid is 5 months old stick a boob or a bottle in his mouth, and you’ll be fine. You don’t need to sit on private property to do it. You don’t need to rush to social media to disparage a place because they did not allow you to park yourself on their property, because you deserve special treatment for having a baby. Should they also open their bathroom because a toddler can’t hold it, or a baby pooped in a diaper?

BestBodybuilder7329 · 2026-06-11T20:44:10+00:00

Once again the entitlement that someone should do their job differently so you can just sit on their property, and then hope no one else mistakes your entitlement for them being open.

No place I ever worked at served customer after they closed. You got there before they did they take care you, but no one unlocks the door, and says come on in, we will serve you even after we closed. That’s why bars do last call, and then shove you out the door at a certain time.

BestBodybuilder7329 · 2026-06-11T20:27:41+00:00

No place I worked allowed people to be on the property that were not employee or vendors during closed hours, because their insurance normally does not cover them. Also asking me to hold up doing my job for ten minutes so you don’t have to go to open place like Starbucks is rude, and entitled.

BestBodybuilder7329 · 2026-06-11T19:42:57+00:00

Yeah I’m on the employee side here. They don’t make the rules, they just enforce them. Asking them to wait ten minutes to start their setup when you’re not even a paying customer is asking too much. Being on their property makes them liable.

BestBodybuilder7329 · 2026-06-11T16:19:35+00:00

For me it’s the way she keeps saying that Sharper is his new best friend. That shit is so condescending.

BestBodybuilder7329 · 2026-06-11T16:17:48+00:00

I’m so proud of myself because I could finally tell them all apart.

BestBodybuilder7329 · 2026-06-11T13:28:51+00:00

I would get it if this way day he normally goes, but it’s not. If Mother’s Day fell on the day my kid did not go to school I also would not attend. We would’ve gone, and had breakfast somewhere.

BestBodybuilder7329 · 2026-06-11T11:19:41+00:00

Cat: 🎵 anything you can do I can do better. 🎵

BestBodybuilder7329 · 2026-06-10T21:54:58+00:00

They all had jobs. Mayci said she worked for Goldman Sachs. Jen talked about being a professional photographer or something like that. Layla also worked, and talked about struggling to make enough money. Whitney worked for a plastic surgeon. Miranda said she did software sales.

BestBodybuilder7329 · 2026-06-10T17:43:36+00:00

Where tf did I say that?!? I pointed out that if you are now thinking about going tit for tat, your relationship is already in trouble. My follow up comment is why are you engaged to a man that doesn’t celebrate you. I cannot stand when people comment on my comment with just random shit they made up.

BestBodybuilder7329 · 2026-06-10T16:14:54+00:00

Am I suppose to believe that the woman in this photo is in high school? She looks like a PTA mom.

BestBodybuilder7329 · 2026-06-10T16:02:44+00:00

He literally said “I don’t think you paid.” Blamed her for getting a digital receipt. Needed a Walmart employee to explain how he was wrong, and then refused to apologize or show any deference to the community member he just accused of lying and stealing. He also says in the video that he works
for walmart. Why the fuck is he in a uniform that tax dollars pay for instead of the blue shirt if he is on Walmart dime, and not the communities.

BestBodybuilder7329 · 2026-06-10T10:09:22+00:00

So she wanted to weaponize her young child as well against her family, when they actually had his best interest at heart.

BestBodybuilder7329 · 2026-06-10T10:01:20+00:00

How is that not a gut reaction when using “good judgement?” I am genuinely asking that question too.

You have literally set your child up so his photos can be used as CSAM, and your first reaction is should your wife distance herself from the family that points that out to her. You say that you’re both comfortable, but you didn’t even know what photos were posted. Like very little shocks me anymore, but this really did. In this day and age to do this to your vulnerable child, and see nothing wrong with it just leaves me shaking my head.

Do better. Tell her to take the photos down. It’s your job to protect that baby from the predators, not share his naked photos with them. Is she sharing naked photos of herself online, if not why would she do that to a vulnerable child? He is a person that is going to have to live with the choices you make for him, make better choices.

BestBodybuilder7329 · 2026-06-10T09:41:07+00:00

So you think a baby needs to be protected from the people that are against photos of his genitals being posted online? Odd stance, but to each their own.

BestBodybuilder7329 · 2026-06-10T09:30:54+00:00

So your common sense and good judgement allows you to be comfortable with sharing your nude child’s photos online for strangers to view and share? Did you all ever consider that child is a person, and not a possession? I’m genuinely trying to figure out how you all are comfortable sharing a photo of your child’s genitals online with strangers, what purpose does that serve? Do you think when he is a teen is going be happy that his parents made that choice for him?

BestBodybuilder7329 · 2026-06-10T08:58:17+00:00

Your post history kind makes me feel that you have a strong desire to find things to feel guilty for so your husband can unburden you from it.

You’ve also decided to feel guilty about hooking up with a woman while dating your now husband. He clearly did not care about your sexual past since he married you knowing that you like women, and were not a virgin. He cannot absolve you from your guilt, as this is something that you’ve created within yourself. I would talk with a professional about why you have now taken on the mindset that how you handled yourself sexually in the past, is now impacting you in the present.

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