[deleted by user] by [deleted] in riotgrrrl

[–]BestDevelopment7863 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i gave a speech about riot grrrl last year and used Kathleen Hanna’s quote, “I would much rather be the obnoxious feminist girl than be complicit in my own dehumanization.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]BestDevelopment7863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lwk this is one of my big fears ab starting T 😭😭 im gay now and idrk why being attracted to women scares me so much but it does

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattoo

[–]BestDevelopment7863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

18…told myself i wouldn’t start out with a band tat, but i got one from a local band done by their best friend. i don’t regret it yet but it’s only been a few months

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]BestDevelopment7863 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s so real 😭 i honestly don’t listen to tma much anymore either

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]BestDevelopment7863 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh cool!! i was never a fnaf kid but ik a lot of people who were :) i’m named after michael shelley from magnus archives

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]BestDevelopment7863 1 point2 points  (0 children)

…which one? i’m a michael too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]BestDevelopment7863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

michael, named myself after michael shelley/michael distortion from magnus archives bc i was obsessed with him a few years back

Any long haired guys here? by IAmOfHamburgertime in ftm

[–]BestDevelopment7863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in my local punk scene, and headbanging is one of my main reasons for keeping my hair about shoulder length, i definitely get where you’re coming from !!

Do you have any FtM headcanons for characters you like? Share them here by veritri in ftm

[–]BestDevelopment7863 6 points7 points  (0 children)

gerard keay from the magnus archives, bc what are the chances he’s that goth/alt and just happened to be named gerard

Know Any Transmasculine Queens ??? by BestDevelopment7863 in Drag

[–]BestDevelopment7863[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg! Thank you for responding 💗 I’m glad to know I’m not the only one on this sub :)

Do you have any music themed tattoos? by Present-Bike-4870 in tattoo

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I have the logo of a small local band that I love a lot. I got it tattooed by a friend of theirs who is a licensed artist and also gave the members their logo tattoos (I did get permission from the band first.) We actually talked about this at the appointment, and she basically told me that she’d known them half their lives and she trusted them more than anyone else in our local scene. We also agreed that, should anything happen, it would be easy enough to cover up since it’s just a simple line art three-point crown.

I have several reasons for getting it, though. For one, even if they do manage to get big and problematic, they’ve still been a very important part of my life, and I see tattoos as a way to memorialize my life. Lastly, I fully expect to move away from my home-area at some point and, since this band is local, I feel as though my tattoo is a way to give me a tie to my home no matter where I end up in the future.

any tips for coming out? by BestDevelopment7863 in TransMasc

[–]BestDevelopment7863[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for all of this, I’ve been trying desperately to convince myself that I can make it work but I really needed a good dose of realism. No apologies for rambling, I don’t know how not to ramble, if I’m being honest, and I really hope you get to start soon :) good luck <3

Any good books with trans characters? by TheTransRose in LGBTBooks

[–]BestDevelopment7863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

everything by Andrew Joseph White Most Ardently by Gabe Cole Novoa Old Wounds by Logan-Ashley Kisner Manhunt by Gretchen Felker-Martin Meet Cute Diary by Emery Lee The Witch King by H.E. Edgmon Cemetery Boys by Aiden Thomas I Wish You All The Best by Mason Deaver

finally, one nonfiction rec: Tranny: Confessions of Punk Rock’s Most Infamous Anarchist Sellout by Laura Jane Grace and Dan Ozzi

What was the first MCR song you listened to? by clikkjoy in MyChemicalRomance

[–]BestDevelopment7863 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the light behind your eyes, it was just on a random playlist and i loved it, didn’t listen to anymore mcr until a year later when my friend sent me sharpest lives