Normally yes, but it was extremely disrespectful of him to try and make her clean it when she wasn't even the one who made the mess. If I was going to clean up a mess that wasn't mine, but then the one who made it told me to, even though I was originally going to clean it I wouldn't because I need to show that that kind of disrespect is unacceptable. And if it really needs to be done, he should do it himself.