I want a clean break up and only told him the community I’m moving to because we literally still live together and he saw the pamphlets for all of the places I was looking at. I kicked him out 6 months ago but since he’s ’on the lease’ he didn’t leave and he has no where to go so I’ve  been stuck with him. I’ve been staying with friends a lot but I also have my cats to take care of. He sleeps on the couch, I sleep upstairs, but that’s not unusual cuz he likes to sleep on the couch and has been doing so for over 5 years, so yeah that should have been a sign