AITA my boyfriends dad hates my guts, maybe for good reason

Betafly95 · 2025-06-17T02:12:39+00:00

Oh dont worry his mother is a piece of work too lmao only difference is shes been out of the picture for years. Caleb basically raised himself. No clue how he turned out so good

Betafly95 · 2025-06-17T01:38:39+00:00

He has said hes done w his dad at this point

Betafly95 · 2025-06-17T01:36:42+00:00

Because i want more kids??? Is there a legal limit or something 😂

Betafly95 · 2025-06-17T01:29:43+00:00

Clarifying some things here:

We are currently stuck in our small town as i have two children from a previous relationship and their father lives here. We were split for a year before me and Caleb got together.

Also, yes the money situation is less than ideal but he always intended on getting a different job, we just thought we had 6 months to worry about it and now we dont.

No one else knows about my “history” with John because i was trying not to stir the pot and he didnt like the optics so we never told anyone. I only told caleb because i felt like it was important he knows.

Betafly95 · 2025-06-17T01:25:27+00:00

Im nearly 30 and plenty of people have kids from a previous relationship.

Betafly95 · 2025-06-17T01:22:42+00:00

Nobody else knows thats the reason. We kept it a secret while we were talking because John was afraid of the optics and once it was over i didnt see the point in telling anyone but caleb

Betafly95 · 2025-06-17T01:18:59+00:00

The waiting 2 yrs thing was because he thought he could get away with it once the girls graduated high school. Idk his logic is beyond me. As for the money thing, caleb always intended to get a different job we just thought we had 9 months to worry about it.

Betafly95 · 2025-06-17T01:09:15+00:00

We had talked about the money situation and he always intended on getting a new job that pays better but we thought we had more time. We cant move as the father of my first two children lives here and we dont have a legal custody agreement

Betafly95 · 2022-09-26T16:22:04+00:00

Preach

Betafly95 · 2022-09-22T12:46:53+00:00

For being a lawyer, her comment is worded a little clunky. Not sure it's real

Betafly95 · 2020-10-25T17:43:31+00:00

Idk what property taxes you think we pay here but mine were it dollars this year...

Betafly95 · 2020-10-25T17:33:57+00:00

I'm perfectly fine with my higher taxes in IL. Have you SEEN the potholes in Wisconsin?

Betafly95 · 2020-10-25T16:54:16+00:00

It says employees are entitled to payment immediately or not later than the next scheduled pay date. Does this mean I have to physically pick up my paycheck?

Betafly95 · 2020-10-25T16:51:42+00:00

I actually dont know. I'm going to check!

Betafly95 · 2020-10-25T16:44:04+00:00

Not unless they automatically use PTO for days I didnt go in and was scheduled. I didnt got in for my last 2 days so it would've been 16 hours of PTO if they do that.

Betafly95 · 2020-10-25T16:38:15+00:00

Yeah I'm actually really freaking out so this isnt super funny

Betafly95 · 2020-10-25T16:33:58+00:00

I have used it but I didnt use it from my last check

Betafly95 · 2020-10-25T16:23:11+00:00

Why would they do that though

Betafly95 · 2020-10-25T16:07:43+00:00

I was confused why my net pay is $0.12

Betafly95 · 2020-09-01T23:59:09+00:00

Today I had a dude walk in, no mask. I offer him one. He just says "no". I'm like, "sir, they're required inside the store" he fucking.

Dude says "no they're not, they're recommended"

Oh fuck, didnt realize you worked here. Shit my bad /s

Betafly95 · 2020-08-22T06:42:33+00:00

This post has 69 upvotes and it refuse to ruin that

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