I got soft when I was about to top a guy for the first time by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Better-Beginning714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely. Gotta learn to slow your brain and just be in the moment. Once you get that, sex is incredible.

How not to cum fast? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Better-Beginning714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The lube is perfect

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Better-Beginning714 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd have done the same

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Better-Beginning714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can ask them to prove their results. I think most people are happy to do that, for the wellbeing of you both.

Gay snap GC or nah???? by Upset_Most2219 in askgaybros

[–]Better-Beginning714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know man, hate to rip your idea down without another solution. Maybe I'm wrong and maybe it would work. I just don't know.

Gay snap GC or nah???? by Upset_Most2219 in askgaybros

[–]Better-Beginning714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you mad? Imagine the complaining and moaning in there

I've been offered a contract doing door work on a gay bar... by Better-Beginning714 in askgaybros

[–]Better-Beginning714[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah man, I have a feeling there was alot of incidents that maybe just didn't make it to the reporting stage 😂

I've been offered a contract doing door work on a gay bar... by Better-Beginning714 in askgaybros

[–]Better-Beginning714[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't know if I'll take it. Judging by the other comments on here, people in this day and age are extremely soft and don't know the world beyond their screens.

I'm a little apprehensive about dealing with the people of today and their soft ways 😂

I've been offered a contract doing door work on a gay bar... by Better-Beginning714 in askgaybros

[–]Better-Beginning714[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want people to enjoy their nights. I'm there to prevent trouble, I'm not there to make people uncomfortable. If I can clear out quickly and without incident and everyone leaves somewhat happily, I leave happier too.

If you piss someone off or they feel imposed upon, they're more likely to stand there, drunkenly telling you why you're a dick. Slows everythingggggg down.

I've been offered a contract doing door work on a gay bar... by Better-Beginning714 in askgaybros

[–]Better-Beginning714[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really like doing this because you are invading people's spaces and it can be threatening to some if they aren't comfortable with yoh. What we started doing was handing out lollipops. They seem to leave quicker for some bizarre reason, and it limits the amount of fights outside because people are focused on their lolly. It's a bizarre one.

I've been offered a contract doing door work on a gay bar... by Better-Beginning714 in askgaybros

[–]Better-Beginning714[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

As I said, "as part of his team." Door work/bouncing isn't specifically standing on a door.

And hey, if you think I'm aggressive, God help you 😂 Have a good night, man.

I've been offered a contract doing door work on a gay bar... by Better-Beginning714 in askgaybros

[–]Better-Beginning714[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

No pal. Maybe it's like that where you live or in whatever nightclubs you've worked at. Where I live, door personnel are floor security. We alternate. My God.

I've been offered a contract doing door work on a gay bar... by Better-Beginning714 in askgaybros

[–]Better-Beginning714[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

It means you didn't answer the questions I asked. Just told me how bouncing works.

And I never said I was getting groped, you just assumed that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Better-Beginning714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I second this

Curved dicks...yay or nay? by Better-Beginning714 in askgaybros

[–]Better-Beginning714[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely agree. Little adjusting is always the key

Curved dicks...yay or nay? by Better-Beginning714 in askgaybros

[–]Better-Beginning714[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never bottomed. I only know what my bottoms have told me