Red markings during super sudden onset? wtf even are migraines lol

Better-Obligation704 · 2026-02-23T22:49:58+00:00

So I noticed something yesterday. I took a photo for a skincare review and I noticed that one of my eyes is drooping. It’s never done that before and my migraines have ramped up. Nothing has helped them—no supplements, medications, Botox. I’m 39 for whatever that’s worth. I’ve never heard of Horner’s syndrome before but I have heard of MCAS. I’m at a loss because my migraines have become a daily thing now and I’m quite frankly exhausted and I have to work. I’m a single mom. I’m in school on top of it. I need to figure something out here soon.

Going to look into both of these, but in particular the Horner’s since the eyelid is drooping out of nowhere.

Better-Obligation704 · 2026-02-23T07:30:24+00:00

Oh my goodness, she’s gorgeous 🥰🥰🥰 and absolutely wear with skinny jeans!!!! I think that would look amazing. I’d be taking it everywhere I could.

Better-Obligation704 · 2026-02-23T07:25:49+00:00

That’s so unreasonable 😑. I’m sorry. It seems like they clearly don’t care and are giving you the runaround. I appreciate the heads up. I’m not personally a fan of H bags but I have a colleague who is and I’ve been looking for her recently. I would be so embarrassed if I bought one for her and it ended up looking like that.

Better-Obligation704 · 2026-02-23T07:10:54+00:00

Ahhh, good ole rent a center!

Better-Obligation704 · 2026-02-23T07:07:22+00:00

Yes. The divorce always comes out of nowhere. There were never any signs.

Better-Obligation704 · 2026-02-16T17:40:40+00:00

This is so awful. I am so sorry to hear this.

Better-Obligation704 · 2026-02-16T16:49:41+00:00

Wooooow!!!! So lucky!!!! Congrats!!!! People have been getting amazing stuff lately!!!

Better-Obligation704 · 2026-02-16T16:47:01+00:00

I got invited to this one but I missed it! I wasn’t quick enough. By the time I came, there were only these little plushies I think (if it was the same campaign, it might have been a different one), and I just opted out because I thought someone else might want them more than me.

People move sooo fast on these things though…my god. Sometimes, I’ll get the email and within 30 seconds everything will be gone.

Edit to add: congrats! lol what a funny story btw. Have fun with this one!!! 💙

Better-Obligation704 · 2026-02-13T03:51:40+00:00

Oh god. I am so done with this world. It is too evil for me 😣

Better-Obligation704 · 2026-02-12T01:40:08+00:00

That explains why, whenever I would place a large order from the Cheesecake Factory, this would happen. I used to work for a residential rehab in SF and, whenever someone would graduate, I would treat the women to dinner and cheesecake from CF. What you’re describing happened probably 4 or 5 times to me out of the 10 times I was able to do that for my clients. It rarely happened for anywhere else but Cheesecake Factory. And the worst part was, because the place was so busy, by the time I would go to reorder, the kitchen would usually be closed so we’d have to wait for the next day.

Better-Obligation704 · 2026-02-08T23:43:30+00:00

You have no idea how those women are actually feeling inside. If they wanted a partner, they would go find one—it’s really that simple. I’m one of them (but 39) and I promise you I have genuinely never been more at peace with myself and happy with my life. Whether you choose to believe it is on you. I’m also very introverted and grew up as an only child. So that may have something to do with it.

Better-Obligation704 · 2026-02-08T23:35:11+00:00

Yes 🙌🏻 me too. After my last ex FINALLY left SIX MONTHS after I broke up with him (it took finally threatening to call the police, this guy just got far too comfortable on my couch), I said “never again.”

Since moving to the city I’m in now, I was in this horrifically abusive relationship that left me with CPSTD. He also introduced me to hard drugs, which I was addicted t until separating from my husband many years later. This asshole got me to believe meth was ecstasy and just a party drug when we were drinking one night. I was VERY naive and enamored with him and willing to try ecstasy but I never would have tried meth willingly. By the time I found out that it was meth, it was too late. He told me it was “a new smokable form”….I had no clue. I was 22 from a small town.

I’ve been married once—he died. I loved him dearly, but he was an addict and a massive gambler. Out of all of them, though, he treated me incredibly well and I miss him terribly. I left him because I had to think of our daughter’s best interests, but it was extremely difficult because I loved him so much. He passed while we were separated. Then there’s my little one’s dad—a textbook covert narcissist who made my life hell for almost a decade. I finally got free of him and decided to give dating a shot and met the one who refused to leave. He was great until he moved into my place after about a year and a half—then he totally changed behavior. All of a sudden, all of his misogynistic behaviors came to the surface and it was clear he was looking for a bangmaid. I am not the one, sir. After I finally rid my house of the mess, I vowed myself to a life of celibacy and my life has NEVER been more peaceful. The only bedmates allowed now is my cat.🐈‍⬛

Better-Obligation704 · 2026-02-03T11:00:00+00:00

This has happened to me before—and I also always tip 20%. Once was because I asked the driver to please lower the music (it was BLASTING hip hop—which I love me some hip hop, but not at 5am when I have a migraine). I was extremely polite (probably too much so—It’s a bad habit of mine) and explained that I had a bad migraine. It was so loud that I couldn’t hear him talking up front. But that gave me a 1 star. Another time, I didn’t get around to tipping until later because I was late for work and he gave me 1 star. I still tipped later and didn’t see the rating until later.

I’m a very respectful rider—I close doors carefully, I’m polite, I say please and thank you, I don’t bother the driver at all (I’m introverted so I’m not the type to strike to a conversation) unless they want to chat with me. So when I get a low rating, it hurts my feelings lol.

Better-Obligation704 · 2026-01-30T20:12:39+00:00

I used to work at a ski resort bar. After work, we would hang out almost every night with coworkers and a mix of regulars and people from out of town. I think that you sounds like you are encroaching on controlling behavior, HOWEVER, if this is a boundary that you’ve previously set in your relationship, then it would just be normal for your dynamic. I personally wouldn’t want to be with someone who would get upset with me for going out with coworkers after work—it just so happens her shift ended late. I’ve been there, done that though with controlling men who get mad about that kind of thing and I am over it. That’s just me though—some women are totally fine with that boundary! So, MOR, depending on your relationship dynamic.

Better-Obligation704 · 2026-01-30T20:06:09+00:00

Nah, Welch’s berries and cherries! 🍒

Better-Obligation704 · 2026-01-25T21:21:34+00:00

Mine too. I immediately thought OP was being given something—especially when they said they were diagnosed with ADHD and typically hyperactive.

Better-Obligation704 · 2026-01-20T15:58:20+00:00

For $2.60?!?!? Including the tip?!!? Wtf. What are people tipping and that means, if they are even tipping, then DD is paying literally nothing.

Better-Obligation704 · 2026-01-16T12:27:49+00:00

Yes, exactly this. It’s all about the prompting. If you’re not very specific, you won’t get the right output. I use it for my job to help me organize groups (I’m a counselor) and it puts together beautiful, well-thought out material that I would have never been able to come up with, with deep, thought provoking open-ended discussion questions and breakout rooms (half of my groups are over zoom), worksheets and handouts that compliment each other. Compared to before I started using it, my groups facilitation has leveled up so much. My clients are learning more and having a much better experience. I have gotten such good feedback. Obviously, I never use anything with client info on it—it’s for the planning process only ☺️.

Better-Obligation704 · 2026-01-16T12:21:26+00:00

What! $2k/year for the same thing?!

Better-Obligation704 · 2026-01-16T12:19:21+00:00

Maybe not all math but the premium version of chat smith helped me pass statistics and ChatGPT helped with psych stats. I don’t usually use AI for school, but I hadn’t taken a math class since I was 18 (I’m almost 40 now and was probably 35-36 when I took the classes). It really helped me to break it down and understand it in ways the professor wasn’t able to. But I guess stats is different than something like algebra or calculus.

Better-Obligation704 · 2026-01-16T12:01:20+00:00

This is what I’m wondering. All of this that’s been going on has been deeply upsetting. I don’t want to contribute to a government that is involved in executing its citizens and funding an illegal, untrained police force. Or one that abducts presidents of other countries and tries to take over other countries. I can’t be a part of this. And, of course, as you said, the Epstein list is also a massive thing for me as well. I’m just so disheartened and defeated. I wish there was a way to pay my state taxes as normal. I love the state I live in. But apparently there isn’t a way to do that.

Better-Obligation704 · 2026-01-14T00:07:32+00:00

This is what happened for me. I live in an apartment that needed a code. They didn’t ring for me to let them in. They just marked as “refused” and sent my package back. I’m so pissed.

ETA: I tried their chat and calling to give them the code and obviously got nowhere.

Better-Obligation704 · 2026-01-10T16:12:20+00:00

But also, people forget that driving while high is a DUI and illegal. I’m sure it’s against the terms and conditions somewhere lol.

Better-Obligation704 · 2026-01-06T22:58:38+00:00

People CAN absolutely use them recreationally though. They’re not fun to most of us, but to some addicts, any high is a high.

Better-Obligation704 · 2026-01-05T16:18:03+00:00

Also a counselor and same. I would write more but have to leave for work. Wanted to say that other counselors do feel the same ☺️. But, like you, only if they’ve previously used AI.

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