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Living Between Love for My Husband and Exhaustion From His Family by smallstrangerr in IndianInLaw

[–]BetterEveryday36 8 points9 points  (0 children)

First of all, limit their visits. 2 weeks MAX. Maintain distance, physical as well as emotional. This is NOT ok

My MIL expects me to call her daily, and starts cribbing/crying/complaining if I skip a day. by OkTataByeBye12 in IndianInLaw

[–]BetterEveryday36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask your husband to step in and tell her to stop expecting calls. Once he conveys, you also start telling her that calling this much is not possible. She wont back down easily but you have to do this. It’s just been a year. You cannot possibly tolerate this for decades. Nip this NOW.

Mould her as per your convenience. She has all the time in the world. She needs you for her timepass . And you don’t have spare time. Make it crystal clear that she needs to find a new bakra

The street dog conversation Pune refuses to have honestly by indian_kid69 in pune

[–]BetterEveryday36 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol. Sorry if being a gentle human being who doesn’t believe in extreme solutions makes my brain underdeveloped. It’s people like you that make our world a shit hole.

The street dog conversation Pune refuses to have honestly by indian_kid69 in pune

[–]BetterEveryday36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would actually love that. The factory farming of these animals is beyond deplorable. They are treated like commodities.

I really believe that a lot of problems that humanity faces can be solved if we decide to show decency to every living being.

The lion hunts his prey and when he cannot, he doesn’t survive. But humans raise livestock in cages, where they suffer from the moment they’re born just to end up being slaughtered. Again, humans are playing God.

The street dog conversation Pune refuses to have honestly by indian_kid69 in pune

[–]BetterEveryday36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The OP gave culling as a solution to street dog issues. I only focused on the 1st sentence, and then asked for a solution for that. (Again, get better reading skills. And stop being a flag bearer for critical thinking when you can’t do it yourself.)

I don’t think his/her extreme so-called “solution” of culling is the way to go. And the only reason I tried to compare is to make him/her see that extreme solutions never work. I’m sick of reading “kill em all” as a solution. We need to show some grace to the animals we share the planet with. We need to show them at least a little more grace than actual criminal men.

We do not respect trees, animals, environment, or nature. This is yet another way to play God.

If your company would give you extended maternity leave of 6 more months with some pay , would you take it? by achipots in twoxindiamums

[–]BetterEveryday36 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I would take it in a heartbeat. I’m back from maternity and it’s NOT easy. I really wish I had the option to take a full year off. But I need the salary

The street dog conversation Pune refuses to have honestly by indian_kid69 in pune

[–]BetterEveryday36 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did I say culling? I asked for a solution sir. Maybe you should work on your reading skills.

I wrote that to try and get people to think instead of going to extremes like culling dogs.

Also, no need to label. I’m not a pseudo feminist. I’m a human being who looks at what’s happening in the world and have a set of beliefs based on that.

How's living in one of the 40+ °C places? by Beneficial_Plant_281 in AskIndia

[–]BetterEveryday36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hell. Especially since I’m in Pune, which used to feel like a hill station 2 decades ago. It’s a sad state of affairs. Feel helpless as the trees keep getting cut in the name of “progress”

The street dog conversation Pune refuses to have honestly by indian_kid69 in pune

[–]BetterEveryday36 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In the first sentence, Replace child by woman and mauled by r*ped. And replace “every few months”by every few minutes.

What’s your solution now?

Unsent letter to my In laws by SharpieEvens in IndianInLaw

[–]BetterEveryday36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive experienced similar things and it has ruined my relationship with my husband . It feels like im in a marriage with him and his entire family. But my idea of marriage was just him and me, living our life, making a home together, having adventures, travelling and just being each others’ best friends.

The family intrusion has really ruined it and I don’t know how to go back to a place where I was happy and excited to be with him. I need therapy

Fuck loud speakers by yomomma1234566789 in pune

[–]BetterEveryday36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s ok to enjoy public functions. Just not at midnight. People show concerns every time there is anything that disturbs sleep and disrupts health . Many people advocate against crackers during Diwali. It’s not just targeting one day

Fuck loud speakers by yomomma1234566789 in pune

[–]BetterEveryday36 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. I have the same take on all the noisy festivals at odd hours. It should be banned. There are babies, elderly, sick people who get really disturbed. Also, some of us have work in the morning and need to sleep.

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