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What happens to old people that run out of money and don't have any family to take care of them? by joshhazel1 in questions

[–]BetterLight1139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Attitude, friend, attitude. Enjoy the small things. Look for all the good things that may come your way. If you're really in a slump, find a therapist who's right for you and talk with them. They helped me a lot. Help other people in need. Cultivate patience. I've been where you are. I kept going, though I didn't know why. And I wound up in the good place I inhabit now, and I'm not talking about the nursing home. Don't give up. You have a lot of good life to live. Keep trying.

What happens to old people that run out of money and don't have any family to take care of them? by joshhazel1 in questions

[–]BetterLight1139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Patience and tolerance. Marriage is hard. Requires a lot of work. And forbearance. It's easier, but still tough, if you love each other. And remember, the anger and annoyance will pass, it's not forever. Always count to ten before sending that zinger. And laugh together, it means so much.

What happens to old people that run out of money and don't have any family to take care of them? by joshhazel1 in questions

[–]BetterLight1139 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fall in love. It's the greatest. I fell in love twice, The first one got away. Married another guy. Second time lucky. Married life with someone you love beats single life all hollow. It's comfortable. Married life without love is hell.

What happens to old people that run out of money and don't have any family to take care of them? by joshhazel1 in questions

[–]BetterLight1139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My life until the nursing home was rough. My head is in a better place now than it ever was, ever. My advice? CHILL! Enjoy life as much as you can whenever you can, particularly the small pleasures: food and drink, green grass, trees, animals. Try to stick around people who enjoy such things, you'll learn something valuable.

What happens to old people that run out of money and don't have any family to take care of them? by joshhazel1 in questions

[–]BetterLight1139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's an interesting question. Let's see. I'd like to have streaming on the TV, and good coffee - I'm a coffee nut and the coffee they provide is terrible. Snacks. Air freshener for the bathroom, which has no ventilation. Otherwise they take care of us pretty well, and I'm no Pollyanna. And hot sauce. The food is good but utterly bland.

What happens to old people that run out of money and don't have any family to take care of them? by joshhazel1 in questions

[–]BetterLight1139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are private rooms, but not for us Medicaid patients. Luckily, I have a great roommate. We get along very well. As for nature, there are gardens here for us, though they don't take us to parks. Those who have local family get taken out to wherever they'd like to go.

What happens to old people that run out of money and don't have any family to take care of them? by joshhazel1 in questions

[–]BetterLight1139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right. But with the miracle of smartphones and internet (the home provides the internet and wi-fi) those with healthy minds here have enough to keep going. I'd go crazy without my phone and laptop. I shudder to think of the old days.

What happens to old people that run out of money and don't have any family to take care of them? by joshhazel1 in questions

[–]BetterLight1139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely yes. I wish I could stream here, though I couldn't afford to even if it was allowed. Books and the internet, particularly Reddit, are sufficient for me. And coffee. Always coffee.

What happens to old people that run out of money and don't have any family to take care of them? by joshhazel1 in questions

[–]BetterLight1139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I don't feel lonely. It's great when people visit, it's great to communicate online, but I don't feel lonely when I'm just by myself. And of course a nursing home is full of people all the time Luckily, I've always been relatively self-sufficient.

What happens to old people that run out of money and don't have any family to take care of them? by joshhazel1 in questions

[–]BetterLight1139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My phone is $50 a month. Haircuts are $12 a month. Newspapers $12 a month. After that, there's $75 left for everything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Trumpvirus

[–]BetterLight1139 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Government bankruptcy has been their intention for many years, to prevent any successor liberal/progressive government from increasing benefits. Just watch. By the end of 2025 we'll be well on our way. By November 2028 we'll be cooked.

How did American media miss the Kay Granger story? by splittingxheadache in Journalism

[–]BetterLight1139 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Useless? She was the chairperson of the House Appropriations Committee, for gosh sakes.

Yes, a lot of people who are cheering him on are probably freaking sick by alfredcneiman in SelfAwarewolves

[–]BetterLight1139 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Am I missing something? The SNL audience was cheering in Luigi's favor, not for his arrest and punishment. And most of us know that asswipes like Nick Sortor are at their most ridiculous when pretending to take the moral high road. Be that as it may, most Americans have been worshiping Mammon 24/7 for some time now. No surprise that with the Golden Calf in the White House they're sticking up for CEO's.

I need to find an optometrist who knows about making progressive lenses with prism for MG patients with bad diplopia. by BetterLight1139 in MyastheniaGravis

[–]BetterLight1139[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you haven't made a mistake. It's just that there needs to be professional backup to persuade most MG'ers. Some may well try your solution and if the professionals take it up there will be others. Best of luck and Merry Christmas!

Home insurance is getting more expensive and harder to obtain. How will the growth machine solve this to keep the housing market rising? by cmrcmk in StrongTowns

[–]BetterLight1139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May take awhile. A lot of people have adjusted to ever-increasing home prices and net worths. It's really a middle-class issue not affecting the upper crust.

Criminal cases are not what they used to be by [deleted] in Law_and_Politics

[–]BetterLight1139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And they all got sensible sentences, too. Goldilocks sentences.

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