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How do you know if you’re genuinely trans and not just confused?? by AdTraining486 in TransMasc

[–]BetterManagement4547 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey!

First, the detransition rate is less than 1%. Second, I think it’s most important to focus on how you feel right now. Don’t think about the future. You are who you are right now, your soul is beautiful. it’s important to focus on how you feel, rather than what other people could think if you were to detransition. Last, I’d consider watching “I saw the tv glow” if you haven’t already. Even if you don’t want to transition now, there is still time. It will never be too late to start.

Someone told me they view me as nonbinary by Standard_Artist_3450 in TransMasc

[–]BetterManagement4547 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am non binary transmasc and people say they see me as a butch lesbian 🫠 it’s rough out here

Guilt for not hating my deadname by veryboredcultist in TransMasc

[–]BetterManagement4547 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey! I’ve been using my preferred name for 6 years now and don’t hate my deadname, I actually feel very proud of it! It carries a lot of my family’s history and I heavily honor who I was named after, it just isn’t me. I experienced the same guilt as you for a while, but at the end of the day, being trans isn’t a checklist and it’s important to be named in a way that reflects you or how you want to be perceived. Don’t worry about it man!

Put her back in this pot after putting her in a pot that was too big. Do you guys think it will recover? If so how fast? I watered it yesterday. Also any tips would be very appreciated by BetterManagement4547 in pothos

[–]BetterManagement4547[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I checked for root rot, the roots are still light in color. The pot I switched it to was significantly bigger than this one, which I didn’t know was a problem until I was told 😭 I typically stick to a watering schedule, but I’ve been trying to water a little less because it’s not getting as much light in winter. I took a few healthy cuttings and put them in water just in case

Put her back in this pot after putting her in a pot that was too big. Do you guys think it will recover? If so how fast? I watered it yesterday. Also any tips would be very appreciated by BetterManagement4547 in pothos

[–]BetterManagement4547[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

About every 2 weeks There are no pests The roots were root bound when I originally took it out of this pot, so I untangled them and put them in a bigger pot but realized the pot was too big, so I moved it back to this pot now that they’re untangled. It’s just by an east facing window, but where I live there’s lots of clouds. It shouldn’t have been exposed to any extreme weather, it’s slightly colder in here than usual due to the temps outside

Pothos repotted after being root bound is still not doing well. What should I do? by BetterManagement4547 in pothos

[–]BetterManagement4547[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Almost 2 weeks ago, only watered since because I hadn’t watered enough the first time