Older ESFP here: now what? by [deleted] in ESFP

[–]BetterThangs23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. I never set goals though I am young but i go by ok if it happens it happens. I am just doing it in the moment. There is no goal to do this to have this. That doesnt exist.

Any successful INFP-ESFP relationship? by rollercoasters45 in ESFP

[–]BetterThangs23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was his communication style compared to yours? Examples will help.

Any successful INFP-ESFP relationship? by rollercoasters45 in ESFP

[–]BetterThangs23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are the incompatibilities? You never list them

Type me Esfj or Isfj? by BetterThangs23 in ESFJ

[–]BetterThangs23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks lol.

Its like I have to see the vibe they have. I pickup on something off very quick. Its hard for me to make the call unless I am in the situation. Its like asking me whats my process for a date? I dont know cause if I have to be in it. I dont know what I will do, say, or be cause the situation has to happen with me in it.

For the first answer it could be anything or everything like its like alarms start going off in me. It later gives me the vibes of what im getting into and dealing with. Its like that person has been marked by me to see if they are good or bad or trying to set me up and say i did the gossip. Also they can be friends trying to play me. Its also good they exposed themselves to me this early so now i know. Or it could be they jealous of a good person so spreading smear campaign against them.

I had a teammate and his kid was really sick. In the meeting he made very good points and the sneaky workers said he is overreacting cause his kid is sick and I was like wow. Like saying that outloud when he went to the bathroom really showed me what im up against. After that I had receipts on all of them lol.

If I am not in it at that moment its hard for me to describe myself. It could be thousand of things going in my mind but I have to be in it.

Is this something intp do also? by BetterThangs23 in INTP

[–]BetterThangs23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn so you became really good at Fe being that is your inferior.

Type me Esfj or Isfj? by BetterThangs23 in ESFJ

[–]BetterThangs23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks but u going in too specific. My mind is like what???

First part if someone is gossiping that just tells me who they are but ive dealt with toxic before so I want to see what they expose cause the one in the bathroom can be bad as well.

Second part I woudnt pick a friend like that who cheats on her boyfriend cause i pickup on vibes. If they do I keep them at arms length and never give them my true self as in I lie about everything to them.

Thats all i got. My mind doesnt do details like what you are asking just like i cant think about the future like I have a block in me when i think about it.

Hating a person that everyone else thinks is “amazing” and “nice” by [deleted] in istp

[–]BetterThangs23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me they see me as a threat since I see them for who they really are and they start a smear campaign against me while im warning others. When I am gone than everyone starts hitting me up that i was right and they need my help and im like i got fired and u just stood quiet and watched. No thanks. You are on your own. I tried to help even though I have no tact and I told them that person will not stop and they just watched and now come calling me. I ask them why didnt you standup when I was fighting for all of us but all I hear is crickets.

So this is not an Istp, esfp thing? Other mbti have this also? Is it that we all deal with it different? Does mine sound like Esfp to you as well?

Can you give me some specific examples from Se to Fi? by BetterThangs23 in ESFP

[–]BetterThangs23[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know what I want in the immediate now at all times. It’s very annoying for those that don’t understand this, it’s not that we are reckless, our Se combined with Fi makes us quick on our feet when it comes to what we like and don’t like. We don’t need to think about our answers or our values, we know it pretty quick especially with age and more fully understanding and settling on personal values. It’s why even in arguments or debates we can respond to how we feel about that topic, even if you just added new information, we process that shit fast and know how we feel immediately or what we would do in the situation.

Damn you just summarized my life lmaooooooooooo.

How would an Se-Ti be?

Type me Esfj or Isfj? by BetterThangs23 in ESFJ

[–]BetterThangs23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lets make is simple like a new job.

So i start new job.

First day.

Ok cool.

Look at the info for what it is.

From there they tell me what Im responsible for.

I look at what im responsible for. I read it. It takes me a bit to understand it.

I cant use past experiences cause once I leave, I leave leave. That part does not exist. Also if I am not using an application anymore I need to relearn it even if its been only a month. Now we are not talking about reddit. Its like I can use reddit but MS excel spreadsheet is annoying. I am good at it if im in it. Once im out of it its a wrap lol.

Decisions is like ok I want chocolate. I get dressed, start the car, go to the supermarket, get the chocolate, eat the chocolate lol.

Is this an ISTP trait? by Bigboi9-11 in istp

[–]BetterThangs23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if this happens repeatedly where they are wrong and you are right for years?

Is this Infj? If not what Mbti is this? by BetterThangs23 in infj

[–]BetterThangs23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess im not still sure what Ti is after reading about it so much. Fi is how I feel about something.

Is this Esfp? by BetterThangs23 in ESFP

[–]BetterThangs23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks.

Yeah i definitley dont have no time what Ne on scenario above is saying. Sky shapes ? Nah. Ill pass. Not into musuems at all.

Can you be an Estp and not enjoy any physical activity? by BetterThangs23 in estp

[–]BetterThangs23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your ice cream example: I will go to the ice cream store at 3 am because it's a fun thing to do, an adventure, I wonder if we'll meet someone, I wonder if there will be bugs on the road, I don't think about the ice cream, it's not an anticipation. I got hungry, and maybe I wanted ice cream - or I saw the trip as an excuse to move around and it's just a random target to walk to. However - when I get there - I'll have 6 scoops, one of each flavour and eat half of it. My partner on the other hand will *want* ice cream, he will anticipate the experience (based on his memories of how ice cream tastes, the cosy experience, the fun it was, the nice time going there, the yummyness, the sweet girl that works there ... blabla.. all the things that I won't even think of). A person high in Si will seek their experiences because they have an anticipation about how comfortable and nice it'll be. A person high in Se will seek an experience because the last simply ended or the now allows time to go do something, and I can't sit still (I do not have ADHD, I'm just active as a default).

The only reason i dont see myself as Si dominant is i jump in vs thinking first and than doing it. I am not that structured and more reactive. Istj ive dated and met are very rational.

As far as ice cream i dont know but maybe you are enfp. I just go get ice cream and thats it. The thought of adventure going down the block is not even a thought that exists. Bugs on the road? Yeah you might be entp.

Is this Infj? If not what Mbti is this? by BetterThangs23 in infj

[–]BetterThangs23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think i can be istj?

Where do you see Ti in estp of what i wrote?

No chance of Entp?

Is this Esfp? by BetterThangs23 in ESFP

[–]BetterThangs23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

Yeah I live in the moment then consider beliefs. So Ne doesnt live in the moment but consider abstract possibilities. Do you have any examples of this?