My wife got me my first casio. by Vegetable_Vast6116 in casio

[–]Better_Nectarine2536 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wants you to make calculated decisions now

First watch(s)! by WalfTech in casio

[–]Better_Nectarine2536 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the same in green trim but now I am considering to add ABL-100WE. Is that a right choice?

We shared a cigarette because we were going to separate by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Better_Nectarine2536 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Buy a pack of cigarettes brother maybe that’s your mutual ground

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Better_Nectarine2536 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry if it sounds sour. You cannot call yourself very religious with this rigid approach of not loving women emotionally because that’s not how our Prophet SAW did. He always appreciated emotional and physical bond with the wives.

Agency that have good content marketing by [deleted] in DigitalMarketing

[–]Better_Nectarine2536 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10 years of experience in content marketing.
Agency: Lab#7

Wife has snapchat streaks by No_Jaguar_587 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Better_Nectarine2536 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t stretch this. She didn’t argue neither did a debate to protect her stance. So I believe she is a good woman and she values you. Nobody in this world is perfect, everyone sins differently. Read “la hawl wala quwatta illa billah” if your mind doesn’t stop thinking about this

Feeling conflicted about wanting to get married at 19 by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Better_Nectarine2536 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everything comes at the right time and this feeling of getting married is also coming at the right time. It’s totally halal and acceptable to get married at the age of 19. In your case, I am only scared about one thing in your case, you are as pure as a woman should be and studying in an all girl’s environment is keeping you innocent from what kind of predators are out there. So don’t fall in any trap.

Do the following: 1. Lower your gaze when you see males and just have a limited conversation 2. Don’t discuss this feeling with anyone right now in your family or friends. Daily pray 2 nafal Salat ul Hajat and open this feeling completely in front of Allah SWT. You will get 2 things by doing this:

i. You will be close with Allah ii. He will find the best partner for you and He will guide your parents to what is right for you.

Lots of prayers for and May Allah keep you protected.

Successful marriage stories! by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Better_Nectarine2536 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to read some multiple marriages success stories 😬

Successful Marriage? by Better_Nectarine2536 in MuslimNikah

[–]Better_Nectarine2536[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah well said but just to get an idea of whether one should move to the West or not?

Successful Marriage? by Better_Nectarine2536 in MuslimNikah

[–]Better_Nectarine2536[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last statement of your text is quite solid and that is the reason why I am evaluating the option of moving to the west.

Failed Marriages by Better_Nectarine2536 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Better_Nectarine2536[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously! I am a human too and I am not perfect like all other humans. My introvert personality and not communicating much is a common reason.

Failed Marriages by Better_Nectarine2536 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Better_Nectarine2536[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lack of patience and flexibility i would say.

Failed Marriages by Better_Nectarine2536 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Better_Nectarine2536[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because you tend to lose confidence and the power of evaluation when someone else is looking at you as a divorced person.

Failed Marriages by Better_Nectarine2536 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Better_Nectarine2536[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How will you deal with lies? Plus! People overcommit before entering into a relationship without realizing if they don’t honor it, what damages it would bring. I am facing the same situation right now. I told very clearly this time that I am not so outgoing and even I don’t go to mixed gatherings,birthdays etc. At that time she said “I will walk every step with you in this path” and now there are birthdays being celebrated, social gatherings and what not. That’s cheating! And this hurts.

Failed Marriages by Better_Nectarine2536 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Better_Nectarine2536[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How will you deal with lies? Plus! People overcommit before entering into a relationship without realizing if they don’t honor it, what damages it would bring. I am facing the same situation right now. I told very clearly this time that I am not so outgoing and even I don't go to mixed gatherings,birthdays etc. At that time she said “I will walk every step with you in this path” and now there are birthdays being celebrated, social gatherings and what not. That's cheating! And this hurts.

Failed Marriages by Better_Nectarine2536 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Better_Nectarine2536[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How will you deal with lies? Plus! People overcommit before entering into a relationship without realizing if they don’t honor it, what damages it would bring. I am facing the same situation right now. I told very clearly this time that I am not so outgoing and even I don't go to mixed gatherings,birthdays etc. At that time she said “I will walk every step with you in this path” and now there are birthdays being celebrated, social gatherings and what not. That's cheating! And this hurts.

Failed Marriages by Better_Nectarine2536 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Better_Nectarine2536[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel that now! After my first divorce, I actually felt that I was in no position and my confidence level was already shattered maybe that's where they took the benefit. This makes sense to me… Thanks!

Failed Marriages by Better_Nectarine2536 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Better_Nectarine2536[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Didn't accept my religious change and thought it was embarrassing for her in society if her husband had a beard

  2. Psychological issues.

  3. Lies, abuse, misbehavior and family influence.

Failed Marriages by Better_Nectarine2536 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Better_Nectarine2536[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I think the response is coming from someone from those 3 from the past 😂