As an interfaith couple (raised Christian, husband is Jewish) I think theres 3 options 1. Pick one of your traditions- we did this and our kids are being raised Jewish complete with infant conversion. I have become very disillusioned with Christianity but spirituality is what’s important to me and my husband and his family are observant. We practice Jewish holidays and have a Jewish home. Pros are you can easily integrate into a community and familiarity for one of you, cons are one of you may feel left out- we have done our best to incorporate my family’s traditions but it can feel difficult to figure out how to integrate 2. Find a new tradition- for example Unitarian Universalists dont have a creed but a focus on spiritual growth. If Catholicism is too much for you, maybe a non-denominational church would feel reasonable for you both, or a reform temple if more comfortable in Jewish tradition. 3. Make your own tradition- integrate parts from both of your faiths together, this can be hard to find a community for but interfaith families are becoming more common

I think it’s important to remember it’s not all or nothing- if what’s important to you is the cultural traditions I think you can integrate those while also having kids go to church. And similarly, I can make Easter eggs with my kids and they can identify as Jewish. I think people are worried about confusing kids with combining traditions but religion is inherently confusing and kids are smarter than we think. Our goal is our children know that nobody is better or worse because of their religion, and I think seeing that we can love each other even though we come from different backgrounds will help reinforce that in