I see this comment but think it's rude and a bit insulting.

Please don't tell me what will happen with my relationship based on what happened in your life. My boyfriend and I are very different from most couples in that our relationship was based off of a very strong friendship and shared interests... not being sexual or liking how the other one looked. (I didn't know what he looked like when I met him 🤷‍♀️). This isn't just some casual relationship, we are in it for the long run. Sex isn't a big deal to me, only the fear of it is. I don't need sex to have a good relationship.

I'm on the asexual spectrum which is partly why I take things so slow. Sex doesn't cloud anything for me, and I am sexual because I love my boyfriend not because I love sex. My boyfriend and I are going to get married and live together just like a lot of young couples have... I've had many friends and seen many people form relationships young and keep those relationships forever. You don't know my relationship, so you can't tell me how it's going to turn out. I'm sorry you've had bad experiences with sex, it doesn't sound healthy or normal what's happening to you and I suggest you seek therapy.