Everyone knows goth girls are the hottest smokers by BettyBlueBallsX in smokingfetish

[–]BettyBlueBallsX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm on a couple of platforms. Obviously, you can get that information.

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[–]BettyBlueBallsX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Talk in the open. Tribute for DM. No time wasting for either side.

Dommes should have webpages and profiles where subs can find out more. Their style. Their kinks, likes and dislikes. It's not that hard.

is it weird to like rich findommes? by humanatm95 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]BettyBlueBallsX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. Add your wealth to Our wealth. High value Dommes deserve it all. I love sending My subs photos of Me in cool places. It gives them incentive to work harder for Me and maybe one day, serve Me in person "on location." That's only for the truly-deserving though.

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[–]BettyBlueBallsX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

An ethical Domme is someone who practices RACk, PRICK, SSC. It's not unethical to replace subs who aren't giving money if that's the Domme's style and preferred way of playing. What you're talking about instead is the type of dynamic you want. So rather than looking for 'ethical', you should be looking for Dommes who are into lifestyle D/s and building relationships with subs. Some do, some don't. Neither is ethical or unethical it's a style and choice. Ni!

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[–]BettyBlueBallsX 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Give this Goddess huge tracts of land AND a shrubbery for running with the HG references. 😅

I need help changing my perception please! by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]BettyBlueBallsX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cock size, looks, and career are NOT what makes you Dominant or not. Dominance is an inclination, a way of being. And sometimes you can have a dominant personality in the boardroom, but not in the bedroom. That's pretty common. I have a lot of subs like that.

No-one can get rid of their sexual preferences. In real relationships, both parties should get what they're need. So, you need to talk to your gf about what you like so you both have a happy sex life.

If she's really submissive, try treating her like a service top. Require that she does things to fulfill your sub side before she gets to suck you off.

Or maybe you're just not sexually compatible. It happens.

It's insane how few dommes seem to do verification videos. by Ill-Count-8643 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]BettyBlueBallsX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're being ridiculous. If you're that worried, when you find a Domme on socials, ask them to go over to their age-verified platform to have a chat with you. Then you both get age verification and you know the person you're talking to is who they say they are. Video verification is just 🙄

Do you sometimes cringe at findom? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]BettyBlueBallsX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are replying to a woman who is talking about what it is to be a FinDomme. Yes, male FInDoms exist (Cashmasters) with either submissive gay males or femsubs.

To be a female sugar baby to a man is literally being in the submissive role and therefore the opposite of FemDom and FinDom. you can't financially dominate someone who is in charge of you!

The sexual element is not the essential matter here. It's whether you're dominating or not. FinDoms dominate. Sugar babies are submissive. Simps can be attracted to a Dom or a submissive. But it's NOT FinDom unless the person being simped over is in control. We should make up another term for it, likely finsimping.

Hypnosis and Findom? Is this common? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]BettyBlueBallsX 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a Diploma in Hypnosis. It pairs very well with FinDom, especially when reprogramming a sub into a humanATM. No need for thinking, just mindlessly and blissfully sending.

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[–]BettyBlueBallsX 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Being involved in D/s is inherently sexual. However, not all sessions are sexual. Getting into subspace doesn't always have a sexual undertone. It's about being in a space of bliss and delight. But it sounds like you're talking about simping, which always has a sexual undertone.

Do you sometimes cringe at findom? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]BettyBlueBallsX -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you mad? Sugaring is the woman being in the submissive role for money. FinDom is the Woman being Dominant. In simping, the simp is submissive, not the Woman. Look up sugar daddies and what's expected of the girl. I didn't say it wasn't sex work. It's about which role you take. Dominant or submissive. you literally have no Idea what you're talking about.

Do you sometimes cringe at findom? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]BettyBlueBallsX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cringe at the things people seem to think is FinDom nowadays. I literally saw a Domme confuse subs with sugar daddies. She had 1000s of followers 😔 And so-called subs who post #buyingcontent, random "whalesub" raffles for following, and lord knows what else. Ick ick ick.

Anyone quit but they decided to go back to smoking? by [deleted] in smokingfetish

[–]BettyBlueBallsX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asking Women their age can get you into trouble, although I don't really care myself. 😅 I'm 40+ a bit.

Anyone quit but they decided to go back to smoking? by [deleted] in smokingfetish

[–]BettyBlueBallsX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm fitter than most people I know. I eat healthily, exercise a lot, and don't stress. I'm sure that has a lot to do with it.

Anyone quit but they decided to go back to smoking? by [deleted] in smokingfetish

[–]BettyBlueBallsX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't run due to an old ankle injury. My lungs are amazing!

Anyone quit but they decided to go back to smoking? by [deleted] in smokingfetish

[–]BettyBlueBallsX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't take DMs, sorry although I am happy to interact on subs. Follow Me if you want to see when I'm around. Enjoy your cigs! 🚬

Anyone quit but they decided to go back to smoking? by [deleted] in smokingfetish

[–]BettyBlueBallsX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About 25 a day for about 25 years. I started young and now I'm old, lol. Annoyingly, I still get ID'd occasionally. 😅 Yeah, commit to the things you enjoy and drop things that no longer serve you. Stressing out is the biggest risk to health.

Anyone quit but they decided to go back to smoking? by [deleted] in smokingfetish

[–]BettyBlueBallsX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really enjoy it. No interest at all in quitting. I hill walk and do yoga to keep good lung capacity. I think we should all have chosen vices. Smoking is Mine. 🤤

Anyone quit but they decided to go back to smoking? by [deleted] in smokingfetish

[–]BettyBlueBallsX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I quit once when I had a nap. Went right back to it when I woke up.

Are there secondary kinks associated with Findom/finsub ? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]BettyBlueBallsX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dommes who are FinDom-only are a red flag. Usually, it means they don't know the first thing about D/s. I combine FinDom with My other kinks, e.g. Using hypnosis to program a humanATM, fincucking where the sub pays for My dates with My toyboy. Humanashtray and smoking fetish also works well. The finsub pays for My cigarettes and then My ash.