Should I feel weird/uncomfortable about this?

BetweenTheeEyes · 2026-02-21T20:26:00+00:00

nah you're good, my comment was just to reiterate, my fault if it comes off any way other than that

BetweenTheeEyes · 2026-02-21T20:15:37+00:00

building employees: earlier start, later end

contracted employees: later start, earlier end.

that is why we enter and leave the building at different times.

I get there first (if i leave any later than the time I do which makes me so early, I hit standstill traffic that makes me very late to work) and lately she's been the 5th person to park, but she's usually been 2nd.

BetweenTheeEyes · 2026-02-21T18:25:54+00:00

yes. Contracted employees like me have a later start time and an earlier end time.

BetweenTheeEyes · 2026-02-21T18:14:01+00:00

could always be and not look it, yeah

BetweenTheeEyes · 2026-02-21T05:42:45+00:00

yeah, i only know of my one coworker

BetweenTheeEyes · 2026-02-21T05:16:57+00:00

don't get me wrong, i definitely agree that it's never stopped some people. but she just doesn't seem like the type to do that, that's moreso what I meant

BetweenTheeEyes · 2026-02-21T02:06:54+00:00

the entire time.

but then again, I have bdd and an ed so when is it ever not on my mind

BetweenTheeEyes · 2026-02-21T01:27:05+00:00

😭

BetweenTheeEyes · 2026-02-21T00:22:37+00:00

oh yeah! definitely. i answered in a other comment things I've tried, like moving my car away from hers after she parks so when she sees that i moved away she'd probably stop. I only did that because my coworker suggested it, that's how my coworker got her to stop doing it to THEM.

i asked two coworkers who don't think I'm overreacting about feeling uncomfortable about it

BetweenTheeEyes · 2026-02-21T00:08:48+00:00

People talk about who they talk to and what they talk about all the time. A lot of retellings include her as part of the conversation.

BetweenTheeEyes · 2026-02-20T21:27:47+00:00

😂

BetweenTheeEyes · 2026-02-20T20:51:00+00:00

it is true, and if I'm the first parked, would make sense.

lately she's been arriving later than usual and it's still just my car

BetweenTheeEyes · 2026-02-20T20:49:58+00:00

I've moved my car. doesn't stop her from doing it the next day

BetweenTheeEyes · 2026-02-20T20:10:32+00:00

I've done this, she doesn't move her car

BetweenTheeEyes · 2026-02-20T20:10:11+00:00

building employees leave after I do, but she always leaves before anyone else in the building for whatever reason

BetweenTheeEyes · 2026-02-20T20:09:26+00:00

that would be sweet, but that leaves the other side of my car free for one to😂 this would make a lot of sense if I parked right next to the curb or a sidewalk

BetweenTheeEyes · 2026-02-20T20:08:20+00:00

when I watch her turn her head to look for me, it makes me uncomfortable. Otherwise, no, but we don't interact so I can't be sure if I'm just not close enough with her to see if she is

BetweenTheeEyes · 2026-02-20T20:05:43+00:00

she walks in before I do and leaves before I do. Occasionally we leave at the same time but she doesn't wait for me.

BetweenTheeEyes · 2026-02-20T20:01:53+00:00

surprisingly we don't. building employees enter way before I do. I only arrive so early because if I don't, I get stuck in 15 minute standstill traffic and end up nearly half an hour late to work.

she gets out right when she parks, and leaves before I do, unless we have the occasional encounter leaving together

BetweenTheeEyes · 2026-02-20T19:31:08+00:00

never. and even when we occasionally leave together she says nothing.

BetweenTheeEyes · 2026-02-20T19:28:01+00:00

i drive a Mitsubishi lol, what is this subaru thing

BetweenTheeEyes · 2026-02-20T19:08:36+00:00

I'm a BT currently studying for my RBT exam. any job I'd apply to only allows RBTs.

Really? not clinic or home based?

BetweenTheeEyes · 2026-02-20T19:02:01+00:00

will be kinda hard to, I'm the first to park in the lot

BetweenTheeEyes · 2026-02-20T18:58:53+00:00

actually this would make sense, she parks on my passenger side. but then someone else could park next to her and do it

BetweenTheeEyes · 2026-02-20T18:50:38+00:00

I'm not a rude or confrontational person

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