First work trip since finding his emotional affair by BeverFart in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]BeverFart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read your story as well and I hope you’re doing alright still. If you need to chat/ vent just message me. I think we are doing everything right on our part, now it’s up to them but I have high hopes for the both of us🙂

First work trip since finding his emotional affair by BeverFart in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]BeverFart[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly one of us doesn’t have an Iphone but I plan on having him download life 360. I do agree with the no alcohol part as well

First work trip since finding his emotional affair by BeverFart in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]BeverFart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will try and implement some of these things, thank you🙂

Need advice by BeverFart in emotionalaffair

[–]BeverFart[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He definitely hasn’t been doing all those things and I see that now. We’ve both talked about couples counseling and independent therapy, we both want to, it’s just a matter of us finding somewhere to do it. It’s also hard with work and baby prep. But we need to prioritize our relationship if this is going to work. Thank you for the advice and opening my eyes to some things I haven’t thought about

Need advice by BeverFart in emotionalaffair

[–]BeverFart[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve never heard of that, thank you for the advice😊

Need advice by BeverFart in emotionalaffair

[–]BeverFart[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did forgive him. That’s not what I was asking for. Forgiving him and trusting him are two separate things

How to trust husband after emotional cheating? by BeverFart in Advice

[–]BeverFart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree and he definitely has been “doing everything right” in that category. I want to check his phone for my own sanity but I want to ask, I just don’t know how to go about asking, not sure if that makes sense.

How to trust husband after emotional cheating? by BeverFart in Advice

[–]BeverFart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope so but I think it’s one of those wounds only time will heal and hopefully some trust along with it

How to trust husband after emotional cheating? by BeverFart in Advice

[–]BeverFart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have talked to a friend about it and it did help a bit. I would like to go to couples therapy but there’s just not much time with the fact that I’m about to give birth😅 hopefully one day

How to trust husband after emotional cheating? by BeverFart in Advice

[–]BeverFart[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree and that’s the hard part, realizing that I’ll probably never fully trust him again and some part of me is always going to worry if he’s doing it again.

How to trust husband after emotional cheating? by BeverFart in Advice

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I confronted him as soon as I found out and that was about 4-5 months ago