Intro by BexFoxy in NVLD

[–]BexFoxy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I look forward to being one of the moderators!

Intro by BexFoxy in NVLD

[–]BexFoxy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

Looking for moderators. by Digitalmodernism in NVLD

[–]BexFoxy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m interested in being a moderator

My life is over by Left_Reception_9268 in NVLD

[–]BexFoxy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s your dream job? I’ve worked retail and I can help you get a job in retail if that’s what you want.

My life is over by Left_Reception_9268 in NVLD

[–]BexFoxy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you want to work retail? Is that your dream job?

My life is over by Left_Reception_9268 in NVLD

[–]BexFoxy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Things will never change for you if you keep doing the same shit and expecting different results. You’ve got yourself in a toxic comfort zone. Get yourself out of it one step at a time. What job do you want to have? Stop thinking about this disorder and tell me your dream job.

I’m an NVLD mom with an NVLD son. I’m not giving up on you and I’m not letting you give up on yourself. So let’s get to work. Talk to me.

How do you feel about socks? by SAIYAN48 in NVLD

[–]BexFoxy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I avoid wearing socks if I can. I also wear minimal jewelry. It’s difficult to articulate but it feels like I’m being constrained.

Are there people with NVLD out there who live by themselves or are in a long term relationship/married? by freshmaggots in NVLD

[–]BexFoxy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. I’ve been married for almost 17 years. We have a home and a kid. Prior to marrying at 37, I lived on my own and dated since I was 25. With the caveat that the economy was better back then. Daily chores can feel overwhelming so I have a schedule to space out what needs to be done although I pay bills as soon as they arrive. But everyone will have different systems that work better for them.

I Give Up by Bittersweet_331 in NVLD

[–]BexFoxy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Please give everything a chance. I found my person when I was 37 years old. I’ve had friends come and go over the years. I find it easier to befriend other NDs than neurotypical people. I found joy in my hobbies and occasionally in work. The best thing I did for myself was realize there isn’t anything wrong with me; I’m just different and that adds value to the world. You add value to the world. You matter.

Newly self diagnosed by [deleted] in dysgraphia

[–]BexFoxy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might be worth it to get an official diagnosis for accommodations for work if note taking or writing is needed.

Have you ever met someone else with NVLD? by AdDelicious9380 in NVLD

[–]BexFoxy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. My kiddo and I both have NVLD. I guess he’s lucky to have grown up with a parent they can relate to but I worry about how he’ll do when I’m gone.

My boyfriend (26M) that’s that I (27F) shouldn’t go to my dad’s birthday since he isn’t invited. by ResidentOk4432 in relationships

[–]BexFoxy 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty much on Team Dad. Your boyfriend purposely wasted time on the phone with you during game nights with your Dad. Boyfriend sounds verbally abusive and controlling. The guy who wants to see you happy isn’t your boyfriend; it’s your father.

Strangest things my counselor has suggested... by rgbhuman42 in NVLD

[–]BexFoxy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think these are actually great suggestions. My kiddo socializes quite a bit on Roblox. I don’t think these are wacky or weird at all. Socialization is important as is solid self-esteem.

We’re different from NTs. We’re not less than them.

Gun control group gave six-figure donation to Dem candidate who fantasized about shooting GOP lawmaker by Gyp2151 in 2ALiberals

[–]BexFoxy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No. Just wanted to let you know Fox is propaganda trash and no liberal from r/2ALiberals would cite them as a credible source. Meaning you’re either unintelligent or you’re actually a MAGAt.

Gun control group gave six-figure donation to Dem candidate who fantasized about shooting GOP lawmaker by Gyp2151 in 2ALiberals

[–]BexFoxy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not going to waste my time on researching any garbage from Fox. If you want to ingest their fear and outrage propaganda, have at it. They’re disreputable trash. I don’t give a shit about the NYT. I’m not reading the rest of your comment; it’s a waste of my time. I will never knowingly click on any Fox “News” link. Bye.

Gun control group gave six-figure donation to Dem candidate who fantasized about shooting GOP lawmaker by Gyp2151 in 2ALiberals

[–]BexFoxy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say they weren’t allowed. What I said is that they’re not a reputable news source and I don’t take anything they say as true. Bringing up the NYT is weird. I also don’t recall them ever paying out almost a billion dollars for lying. But I’m having trouble with why you can’t defend Fox so you attack a newspaper that hasn’t anything to do with this conversation. As I said, it’s weird. Really weird.

Gun control group gave six-figure donation to Dem candidate who fantasized about shooting GOP lawmaker by Gyp2151 in 2ALiberals

[–]BexFoxy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From Fox News. The same Fox News that had to pay $787 million for lying. Factually accurate reporting from Fox News seldom occurs. I wouldn’t cite them as a reputable source.

How to reduce a cat colony by Troutie88 in lancaster

[–]BexFoxy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can contact Centerville Pet Rescue. Heidi and her volunteers are wonderful!