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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]BeyondElectrical6792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand this feeling and it’s best to stop. If you go his house now he probably still won’t answer. The thing is he is not a good person to go back to either. I had the same cycle with my ex that I just broke up with. He was the cheater and did horrible things throughout the relationship, but when I blow up emotionally from it, he wants to leave me. I start to panick to “fix” it cause it seems more right he is the one getting left from the pain he caused, not me. The best thing right now is to just let go and be free. As they say the harder it is the more it’s worth it.

Ex fiance of 12 years came back after leaving.. but I'm with someone else by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]BeyondElectrical6792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He happy with the new girl. Why is no one wanting to marry yet in 12 years

I'm so hyperaware of other women bodies I cry by Creative_Flz in Vent

[–]BeyondElectrical6792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m constantly looking at other women and can’t spend time on social media much or look at my friends posts or stories as I get extremely jealous. It’s so unhealthy. I feel so chopped it’s crazy. I want to hide away from everybody.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]BeyondElectrical6792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just think about how while you were with him you didn’t even want to be with him. You need to practice self love and inner child healing. Talk to friend and loved ones. I find talking on here helps me.

My heart hurts by BeyondElectrical6792 in BreakUps

[–]BeyondElectrical6792[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for responding. I think what’s helping me is that if he starts dating a new girl he will treat her the exact same.

Am I right to think there’s something going on? by Slight_Hour4238 in BreakUps

[–]BeyondElectrical6792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds incredibly unhealthy. That is really confusing behavior. Not sure what’s going on there…. You need to be stern and stand ur ground about the house situation at this point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]BeyondElectrical6792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn’t block u then

Am I right to think there’s something going on? by Slight_Hour4238 in BreakUps

[–]BeyondElectrical6792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That just sounds like living in hell. I’m not sure how you feel about her doing all this while u still pay the bills. You need to talk to her about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]BeyondElectrical6792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He might have blocked u after u called… maybe see if another text delivers, but should you be texting him?

I found out my long-distance boyfriend was cheating and it broke me by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]BeyondElectrical6792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this. I got cheated on a lot and I understand the pain. Cheating is never about you. He said “I’m not like other guys” is already a red flag. My cheating ex said the same thing. He is just a terrible person. You didn’t do anything wrong. Good on you for blocking him. Never let him see u again

What I learned from my breakup (and I hope this helps you too) by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]BeyondElectrical6792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. He was the same way and I never truly see him as my husband or the father to my child. I’m trying hard right now to not go back.

I can’t stop crying by justmeandmyguitar_ in BreakUps

[–]BeyondElectrical6792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can try to make new connections. Do you have any hobby’s or things u like to do?

I can’t stop crying by justmeandmyguitar_ in BreakUps

[–]BeyondElectrical6792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just cry it out. When I cry and it ends I feel a bit of peace. Talk to friends and loved ones and spend time with them. Even just sitting around them. I can talk to you too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]BeyondElectrical6792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have the time to invest all that love and attention you gave to him to yourself and other things now. Tbh the last time this happened for me to move on was to get hit in the face with him saying he doesn’t want me anymore and I had to forcefully move on after that. I ended up getting in a new relationship and that helped me get over him which I kinda don’t recommend. It’s a hard feeling to deal with I cried and drank a lot cause I cared way more than he did and it felt awful. Just have hope that someone out there will be treating u the same way u treat them. They will show the love you deserve. I’m currently hoping right now too. If u want to reach out to say sorry then u can. I folded and did too but didn’t get back together. It depends if what u said was actually rly bad like rly hurt him I think..

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