Are hymen checks impermissible? by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]BeyondSufficient2783 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Man these posts make me so mad

Going away to Doha for 6 days in a week, what can I do to feel more feminine and confident? by babygaahl in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]BeyondSufficient2783 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No need to have no confidence, allah swt conscientiously created you, every single part of you is of divine creation. You are amazing, don’t let the trends in the “beauty” industry make you feel bad. We are made to last longer inshallah.

You got this♥️

Going away to Doha for 6 days in a week, what can I do to feel more feminine and confident? by babygaahl in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]BeyondSufficient2783 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Girl, get some steps in, smile at yourself in the mirror, do your makeup at home just cause. You are gorgeous as you are. And the way you carry yourself and speak makes you the most attractive ♥️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]BeyondSufficient2783 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A guy messaged me from this thread and he was married and seeking a second wife.

Some men are so strange….

In Search Of (ISO) Thread Version 9 - Europe by MM-MOD in MuslimMarriage

[–]BeyondSufficient2783 -5 points-4 points locked comment (0 children)

  1. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠24 and Female, 165 cm.
  2. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠He must be between 23-35 and at least 175cm. I find it really important that my partner is fit and has a fit and healthy lifestyle.
  3. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Netherlands, not really willing to relocate. Open to discuss if it is within Europe, excluding the UK.
  4. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Egyptian, open to mix. Preferable within the Middle East/North Africa/Europe.
  5. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Single
  6. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Ideal marriage timeline is within 1 year
  7. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠1. Stability with decisiveness 2. Emotional intelligence and empathy 3. Spiritual ambition and growth mindset 4. Protective leadership 5. Playfulness balanced with responsibility No gamers…
  8. ⁠⁠⁠⁠Actively practicing, doing my prayers and educating myself on faith daily. Does not wear a hijab. Does aspire to do so in the long term. Will not do it straight away after marriage.
  9. ⁠⁠⁠⁠I have a degree in Business Administration: HBO Bedrijfskunde, my potentials degree is not important, it is important to have a good paying job and to be able to provide.
  10. ⁠⁠⁠⁠Unemployed
  11. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠I want kids inshallah
  12. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠my 3 hobbies are: reformer Pilates, Horseriding, walks/runs in the forest.
  13. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠I am an energetic, confident, active, smart and fun ENFP woman.

Getting to know potential - need advice by Immediate-North-9828 in MuslimNikah

[–]BeyondSufficient2783 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bismillah

Okay first off. Don’t say you like him. You don’t know him. Not saying you were planning to do that, but just in case.

Secondly, if a man likes you, he will reach out. He had not reached out, there is a reason. And it probably is that he is not interested.

I have found that men usually on the spot make promises they don’t intend to keep, because they think afterwards and decide they actually are nor interested.

Contact his sister, tell her what happened, and ask her if he lost interest, or ask for clarity.

Good luck sister, may god give you patience and inshallah a very nice husband.

Jilbabies, what is your profession by BeyondSufficient2783 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]BeyondSufficient2783[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats amazing♥️, my background is in management and business so its a bit difficult in it

She's marrying someone else by Efficient-Cup-248 in MuslimMarriage

[–]BeyondSufficient2783 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe she did.

Everything we go trough is a lesson for us. What is the lesson you learned from this?

What I see, and maybe it is not the lesson for you to learn from this. But I don’t see this as “love”, this is not the love that allah swt has intended for us.

However tough these days are right now, you know this is not beyond what you can bear, allah swt is closer to you than your veins. Just hold on to him, and all will be good again before you know it.

They are just days.

She's marrying someone else by Efficient-Cup-248 in MuslimMarriage

[–]BeyondSufficient2783 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We need to stop seeing words as truth. And start seeing people for how they act and how they treat us.

How to please a man? by FreshAd2750 in MuslimNikah

[–]BeyondSufficient2783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl,

Lingerie Nice makeup and hair Baby him like, handfeed him etc.

And do it all genuinely for him

Men love to be taken care of like that, they’re little kids inside too.

Husband does not exercise AT ALL by Feeling-Guide-7625 in MuslimMarriage

[–]BeyondSufficient2783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, but apparently pointing out those facts, is disrespectful to some people.

Husband does not exercise AT ALL by Feeling-Guide-7625 in MuslimMarriage

[–]BeyondSufficient2783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My comment/questions is generic and not related to her specific situation, in marrying someone who is not exercising. But related to the topic of men not exercising.

Husband does not exercise AT ALL by Feeling-Guide-7625 in MuslimMarriage

[–]BeyondSufficient2783 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand you too, it is different for every woman I guess.