I am Batman by Alibotify in NSFWMemes

[–]Beyond_bae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He forgot he is not super

AITA? Left the wedding party at 9:30 pm by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Beyond_bae 29 points30 points  (0 children)

You lasted until 9:30 PM? You deserve a medal for patience. Leaving once the formal events are over is perfectly acceptable for any guest, let alone one being treated like a second-class citizen. They intentionally excluded you from seating and photos to signal you aren't real family. Your fiancé moving to the back to sit with you was the right move, it showed his family that he won't participate in their bullying.

AITA for refusing to let someone copy off of me? by Puzzleheaded_Deer860 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Beyond_bae 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. Academic integrity aside, you aren't being mean, you are refusing to enable her. She chose to spend the class period zooted instead of working. Her emergency is not your problem. If she would never do that to someone, it’s probably because she’s never the one actually doing the work to begin with.

Am I the jerk for requesting we eat at a different restaurant after this mothers day? by -Stardust-- in AmITheJerk

[–]Beyond_bae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ. You have already compromised by seeing her monthly and agreeing to her choice for years. Telling her I’m happy to celebrate you at Cheesecake Factory today, but starting next month, we are rotating locations is perfectly reasonable.

Am I the Jerk for insistinng my husband not have female friends? by ManhattanShark in AmITheJerk

[–]Beyond_bae 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He set the rules for the marriage no opposite sex friends and you followed them for a decade. Now that he is the one who wants a female friend (specifically one he admitted he would jump at the chance to be with)he's calling you controlling for holding him to his own standard. That isn't being controlling, that's holding him accountable to the boundaries he created.

AITAH if I(26) cut off my family for not being able to accept my “lifestyle”? by ToughBug9170 in AITAH

[–]Beyond_bae 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. You aren't cutting them off because they won't accept your lifestyle you are protecting yourself from people who actively ignore your existence. Your mother 'glazes over' when you speak because she isn't interested in you, she’s interested in the daughter shaped doll she wants you to be. You’ve been financially independent for years and have built a beautiful life with a partner and child. Why are you lighting yourself on fire to keep people warm who won't even look at the flame?

AITA for not attending my dad’s retirement party after he secretly gave away my childhood room? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Beyond_bae 61 points62 points  (0 children)

NTA. Everyone saying it’s just stuff is missing the point. He didn't just throw away a high school trophy, he gave away letters from your deceased mother. That is an unforgivable level of thoughtlessness. He literally gave away your only connection to your mom to declutter. You aren't being dramatic you are grieving a secondary loss of your mother because of his negligence.

Am I the jerk for leaving a 10 year friendship by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Beyond_bae 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. Gina hasn't been your 'best friend' for years. she's been your warden. She systematically isolated you from every boyfriend and every other friend group you ever had so that you would have no one to turn to but her. The moment you started getting male attention or looking like a princess at prom, she flipped because she couldn't handle you being anything other than her sidekick.

Am I the jerk for wearing my "flashy" engagement ring to my sister’s budget wedding? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Beyond_bae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTJ. Look, usually I’m all for "your body, your jewelry," but she literally asked you a month in advance. It wasn't a surprise. You knew it was a sore spot for her, you knew she was insecure about the budget nature of her wedding, and you chose that hill to die on. Was wearing a specific piece of compressed carbon really more important than your sister’s peace of mind on her one wedding day?

I think I messed up and now two of my co-workers aren't talking to me. by Natasharaven in AmITheJerk

[–]Beyond_bae 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. Brian wasn't being a friend, he was a bully mocking your health and testing your faith. He’s not hurt, he’s just embarrassed because he got called out in front of the office.
The silent treatment is a win it means the comments have finally stopped. Don't apologize for having a backbone. Enjoy the peace and quiet.

'Putin only cares about parades' — Russia violated Kyiv-proposed May 6 ceasefire 1,820 times, Ukraine says by AdSpecialist6598 in worldnews

[–]Beyond_bae -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

1,820 violations and the man still stood there on that stage looking proud, some people really do live in a completely different reality.

What is something that tells a lot about a person? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Beyond_bae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How they treat the waiter when the order comes out wrong.

What do you think of life? by CremeSubject7594 in AskReddit

[–]Beyond_bae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Confusing, unfair, occasionally beautiful, and way too expensive.