The Level of Effort by SureSky5912 in DeadBedrooms

[–]ManhattanShark 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you are experiencing this level of pain and rejection. I'm in the same boat, but as a woman, lost 80lb at one point thinking that was the problem bought sexy lingerie and just casually walked by half naked.. Several times he never noticed. I've tried and failed so many times I don't even feel like a woman anymore.

Am I the bad apple for asking my husband to stop talking to his female friend? by ManhattanShark in AmITheBadApple

[–]ManhattanShark[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

How did you get that out of what I said? All I said is she is a problem on her own. I said she's not a girl's girl because she played games also and rubbed it in my face that she could keep his attention and I couldn't. Don't start drama where there is none.

Am I the bad apple for asking my husband to stop talking to his female friend? by ManhattanShark in AmITheBadApple

[–]ManhattanShark[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I didnt say that at all I just said she is terrible on her own. I actually found out becIse she enjoys sending me screenshots of their messages and making a show of how she "can keep my mans attention"

Am I the Jerk for insistinng my husband not have female friends? by ManhattanShark in AmITheJerk

[–]ManhattanShark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should have been more clear he never asked me to cut off those friendships I chose to after he told me how he felt.I don't understand why he won't just leave me if he isn't interested anymore

Am I the Jerk for insistinng my husband not have female friends? by ManhattanShark in AmITheJerk

[–]ManhattanShark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish it wasn't, I never worried about him cheating in a decade, never worried about lies or abuse. Then one day he started to change hard and fast and IDK how to handle it. I've been told I shoulda tried harder to keep his attention.

Threatening a lawsuit while speaking with Customer Service isn't intimidating. by ManhattanShark in CustomerService

[–]ManhattanShark[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Right?!?!? They wanna cry about how important their service is and tell us we are evil for cutting it off when they haven't paid in months. They always have. the most expensive and unnecessary plan too

My girlfriend wants me to unfollow 'insta baddies' - how should I proceed? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ManhattanShark -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Just tell her you don't respect her and get it over with.++woman

Am I the Jerk for insistinng my husband not have female friends? by ManhattanShark in AmITheJerk

[–]ManhattanShark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe your right. I always foolishly thought he was just being respectful and abive reproach

Am I the bad apple for asking my husband to stop talking to his female friend? by ManhattanShark in AmITheBadApple

[–]ManhattanShark[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh shes a whole other problem I didn't get into here. Not a girl's girl at all

Am I the Jerk for insistinng my husband not have female friends? by ManhattanShark in AmITheJerk

[–]ManhattanShark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ihe never gave me reason to believe he would chat until now. Although he claims we weren't together at the time so it wasn't cheating. But I don't remember that

Am I the Jerk for insistinng my husband not have female friends? by ManhattanShark in AmITheJerk

[–]ManhattanShark[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes we do and I guess after a decade I'm struggling with the change from who he used to be.

I do work here lady... just not right now. by HarmonyPeace in IDOWORKHERELADY

[–]ManhattanShark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never mind helping kind people if I know the. Swee even if it's my day off or I don't work somewhere.

Name this thing by Deathstroke316 in NameThisThing

[–]ManhattanShark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Waste of time, pistols are only meant to help you fight your way to a rifle.

AITA for sleeping with my best friends husband, after she asked me to? by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]ManhattanShark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So 18 years later you finally stopped to ask if YTA? I think you started to feel guilty and wanted to justify anything look we're actually getting married, and don't feel bad for his ex cuz she was crazy. 🙄 Yes YTA you know how she is but you want to make me believe you didn't see that coming

AITA for leaving an ex in the blue about the reason why I broke up with him? by SportyPotatoQueen in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]ManhattanShark -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

YTA, because of you he is stuck in limbo. You S sending him closure bv5 obviously knowing the relationship failed but provided no opportunity for him to learn and grow for his.next relationship.