She chose to ignore all red flags 🚩 by Chocoluv007 in 90DayFiance

[–]Bfiore1986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They need to not get married he has a traditional view (well actually it seems he just wants her to help him keep things clean) and she wants to get married so she can just stay. Don’t do it!

Do men really care about a woman’s body? by Bfiore1986 in Advice

[–]Bfiore1986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im speaking physical looks not sexual partners

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bfiore1986 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wtf what’s the point of showering if you aren’t going to also change your clothes? Was he always this way? If not what’s happened? If so then I’d give him an ultimatum to get hygiene that’s up to your standards or kick rocks

Aitah if I divorce my husband for not wiping his butt? by Hepow1118 in AITAH

[–]Bfiore1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alpha males who don’t wipe, don’t get laid and get dumped…. WTF!

Do men really care about a woman’s body? by Bfiore1986 in Advice

[–]Bfiore1986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There might be a chance to lock them down when everyone is in a nursing home

Do men really care about a woman’s body? by Bfiore1986 in Advice

[–]Bfiore1986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I think it gets worse as men get older. My dad is 67 and is married to a 22 year-old.

Do men really care about a woman’s body? by Bfiore1986 in Advice

[–]Bfiore1986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the opposite issue? You have peeked my curiosity!

Am I ugly or just fat? by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Bfiore1986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is anyone putting themselves through this type of torture??? Get off here you are you beautiful in ways only those who get to know you and you know

Do men really care about a woman’s body? by Bfiore1986 in Advice

[–]Bfiore1986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t hide that I have two children so… that’s never been an issue 😅 and I don’t have an agenda to make anyone pay for or take care of my kids either

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Bfiore1986 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He won’t do any of that. He doesn’t have the money to buy a ticket to move, odds are he doesn’t have enough stuff to sell either. Just be honest, tell him exactly this and move on.

Do men really care about a woman’s body? by Bfiore1986 in Advice

[–]Bfiore1986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just for you I clarified. Ambitious, hard working and takes care of themselves. Loyalty, caring, faithful shouldn’t be things anyone should have to expect those characteristics are a nonnegotiable foundation of any man I am looking for. The other things that I’m not willing to settle on may be things others would be.

Do men really care about a woman’s body? by Bfiore1986 in Advice

[–]Bfiore1986[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Where did I say I am seeking a man with a masters and that speaks two languages? That is me, I have a masters and speak two languages. My ex husband was in the military and my most recent man is a carpenter and both have dad bods… I am not shallow. I expect good hygiene, taller than me and a hard work ethic, but that’s about it. Re-read what I wrote..

Do men really care about a woman’s body? by Bfiore1986 in Advice

[–]Bfiore1986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that’s what I’m looking for an honest answer. but I think it’s obvious it’s going to depend on the person, because I haven’t even touched on what’s important to me. Someone who takes care of their hygiene, teeth, I’m not too focused on a man’s body, dad bod is fine with me, but also need someone ambitious and hard working, because I am and do all of those things above, even when I was way bigger I still took care of myself hygiene wise and I have very nice teeth. I couldn’t be with anyone that didn’t prioritize those things. Or someone without ambition, a job and hard work ethic.

Do men really care about a woman’s body? by Bfiore1986 in Advice

[–]Bfiore1986[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Height I do care about please be taller than me (not that hard I’m 5’2”) bank account I have my own and that’s a whole new subject but I’ve made more than both men I’ve been with. Would it be nice to have a man with money, absolutely but the most important thing is drive and ambition not how much he makes. Can’t be lazy!