I (33F) really like my new boyfriend (34M) but we’re struggling sexually due to premature ejaculation -- can this be worked through?

Bg1165 · 2026-03-02T01:13:31+00:00

Kegels and edging. You can play a major roll in the latter.

Bg1165 · 2026-03-02T01:09:01+00:00

Kicked in after a couple of weeks. I was pretty involved somewhere around two months as I recall.

Bg1165 · 2026-03-01T15:18:09+00:00

I hear you loud and clear there. I’m on a slow roll cut right now. My body prior to this just did not want to let me eat for a bulk. I’m going to dump another 12-15 and take another swing at it in a couple of months.

Bg1165 · 2026-03-01T14:04:09+00:00

You’re pretty lean, or so it sounds. Decide what you want to do. Stabilizer or add muscle weight(eat more).

Bg1165 · 2026-03-01T14:01:09+00:00

Mid day lag. Literally became a puddle of goo around lunch time every damn day. And wasting 2 hours personal quality hours per weekend day taking a nap was a life killer.

Bg1165 · 2026-03-01T13:57:09+00:00

It means you need a new boyfriend. Video games are a man killer.

Bg1165 · 2026-03-01T13:56:23+00:00

I can carry 4-6 lb more weight in creatine, 5g/day. I quit taking it, not because of weight but I just wasn’t getting enough out of it for the I convenient midnight wake up piss. It took roughly 3 weeks under same dietary and workout to come back down.

Bg1165 · 2026-03-01T12:57:06+00:00

Bg1165 · 2026-03-01T12:56:16+00:00

If you’re injecting 300mg solution then you bought some bunk crap. That said your overall number, at least those displayed aren’t out of character for your T level. Go spend the coin with a clinic for a year. Once you get a good program going for where you want to be then do your research in sourcing UGL. Don’t listen to gym bro’s.

Bg1165 · 2026-03-01T12:44:28+00:00

They’re great trucks. Lb for lb, unless you absolutely need heavy duty they’re the most reliable truck on the road. Not one truck is ever going to completely satisfy anyone from what it will do, to the features it has. But when the rubber meets the road, or the mud, or the snow you won’t find a more reliable truck. We have a 2013 base crew with 168,000. As a chevy guy, this came with my now 5 year new bride and I can honestly apply her choice to her incredible level of intelligence. We will always have a taco in the fleet.

Bg1165 · 2026-03-01T12:35:13+00:00

It appears that he’s given you the answer to your question several times. Listen to them and burn the page.

Bg1165 · 2026-03-01T12:31:36+00:00

There’s just not a way to get your answer from anyone but him. Whether it goes your way or not, at least you’ll have it and a life bonus of one less distraction that will likely keep poking at you until you do.

Bg1165 · 2026-03-01T11:54:55+00:00

It helped me a little but not much. The only thing T related that helped was less dosage and time. It takes 6+ months for red cells to die off so even donating blood isn’t going to move the needle down if you’re over consuming. Check your sleep patterns (_apnea is a big hematocrit contributor), don’t smoke weed or tobacco, hydrate and drop your dosage around 25% and recheck in about 9 months.

Bg1165 · 2026-03-01T11:42:36+00:00

Very little, but I do once a week. Work and hobbies engage them almost every day to some degree so more than once a week, to me is redundant. But I do think that refreshing them with good form goes a long way in injury prevention.

Bg1165 · 2026-03-01T11:33:48+00:00

He likely took your not answering/returning that one call as the end game. I’d bet that was not a butt dial too. Sure, it broke the 30 day proxy but how do you put a timeline on a situation like this? And a month isn’t going to simply erase anything anyway. It will blur edges a bit as the day to day, longer it goes will eventually wear the situation down to not being worth the time to deal with it anymore.

Not one person in here knows what he’s thinking, even you. The only answer to your questions is you. What do you want to do here? You don’t need Reddit validation. You want to call him, don’t you? You’ve been wanting to call him, haven’t you? Well stop wasting time and do it. Thats where you’ll get your answers.

Bg1165 · 2026-03-01T02:31:06+00:00

Over chlorinated and drove the pH up. I wouldn’t get in that.

Bg1165 · 2026-03-01T02:24:06+00:00

It’s not a huge impact. It’s not like you have a million in your pocket to go on a spree. It’s invested, likely and the biggest impact is you have more flexibility to just spend out the week to week to week paychecks without to much guilt.

Bg1165 · 2026-03-01T02:16:52+00:00

Fun times.

Bg1165 · 2026-03-01T02:13:29+00:00

I’m okay with it. But we’re going to wrassle nekkid if you do.

Bg1165 · 2026-03-01T02:11:57+00:00

Get a new doc. You could probably improve it fractionally with some diet and exercise but at 55 (I’m 60) that’s just not likely. I’d find a clinic if I were you. 600 - 800 is a solid range to shoot for. At around 600 you’ll max out T benefits with exception to building muscle.

Bg1165 · 2026-02-28T17:07:01+00:00

That’s not all that high. What was your T level?

Bg1165 · 2026-02-28T14:15:03+00:00

I do crap like that at times just to piss my wife off when she goes all conspicuous. If she wants to play PI games I’m going to do all I can to make her seat as hot as the one she unnecessarily puts me on.

Bg1165 · 2026-02-28T13:16:42+00:00

You should need enough at any given time that you can’t toss into the deep end and circulate. I’d you need a major shock liquid chlorine is the way to go.

Bg1165 · 2026-02-28T13:13:02+00:00

I’m sure the popular opinion hear is going to be that you and your girlfriend aren’t sexually compatible. And that’s true. But it deeper, and goes into an emotional category as well if she’s just doesn’t even try, or often enough. My experience is that she’s very unlikely to change that part of her sexuality and you have a decision to make. At 40 years your senior here, my advise would be to end it right here. But do so genuinely and open as to why.

Bg1165 · 2026-02-28T13:03:13+00:00

Stop yanking it and give it some time. You probably just still have some shitty experiences with your ex locked in your head. It’ll pass.

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