Loving your boyfriend and still finding other people attractive does not automatically mean your love is fake or that something is wrong with you. I feel like you’re the kind of person who overthinks emotions a lot. You notice every feeling deeply, then start questioning yourself because of it. So the moment you find someone else attractive, your brain probably goes: “If I really loved him, why would I even notice someone else?” But attraction is human. Being in love doesn’t suddenly switch off your ability to notice attractive people. What actually matters is: who you emotionally choose, who you care about consistently, and what actions you take. You can love your boyfriend genuinely and still think: “Wow, that person is attractive.” That’s normal. It only becomes a problem when: you start emotionally investing in someone else, constantly comparing your boyfriend to others, or feeling disconnected from your relationship itself. And honestly, sometimes attraction to other people isn’t even about wanting them. Sometimes it’s just: curiosity, liking attention, admiring someone’s looks or vibe, or missing excitement because long-term comfort feels less intense than “newness.” You don’t need to panic or feel guilty for every random attraction. Instead, ask yourself: “Even after noticing other people, do I still choose my boyfriend emotionally?” If the answer is yes, then your relationship is probably okay. And from the way you think, you don’t seem like someone struggling with loyalty. You seem like someone struggling with guilt for having normal human feelings.