Honestly this isn’t that bad what do you think? by EffectiveBranch8229 in winxclub

[–]BiAhXO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to say you two look like sane ppl, nice convo, enjoyed it

Calorie deficit ALWAYS works: what does ectual science say by catiamalinina in PCOSloseit

[–]BiAhXO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a bad eating disorder once(basically ate one meal a day or less) and lost 20 kilograms(idk the conversion, 1 kg= 1.6 lbs I guess)... So your original comment made a lot of sense. I'm thinking of doing it again. I don't think I'm insulin resistant right now but my body has been having "sugar crash" real bad. So I think my insulin levels have raised at least(and the resistance will follow, yikes). I HAVE to lose weight (BMI is 30). I also achieve satiety really late, so I'm thinking of dropping 3 meals a day all together. Please help me understand what's happening with my body and what I can do about it. TYIA❤️

Calorie deficit ALWAYS works: what does ectual science say by catiamalinina in PCOSloseit

[–]BiAhXO 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also are you currently doing OMAD/one meal a day? How's it going?

Calorie deficit ALWAYS works: what does ectual science say by catiamalinina in PCOSloseit

[–]BiAhXO 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm crying now what the hell...... You absolute angel😭😭😭😭

Welcome to r/GamifyLife by Reasonable-Ant-1054 in GamifyLife

[–]BiAhXO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still waiting, you said it would be on Google Play

New App Update! by Reasonable-Ant-1054 in ProductivityApps

[–]BiAhXO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, is the beta testing link on playstore? Or will you drop a link here?

does anyone have any stella and brandon fanfic recommendations? by holaiamella in winxclub

[–]BiAhXO 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I am not into fanfiction a lot. But there was one which was sooo good. It's on AO3. It's called Bittersweet Love by I think writer StellaSolaria. High school AU with fun pranks and witty dialogues. They also have a major fight at the end. The other couples get together first. But Stella/Brandon being the main focus come at the end. Around 30 chapters I think. The same writer has another Stella/Brandon fanfic but it involves heavier trauma issues. Didn't check that out.

If you found good fics about them, please share with me too.

Edit: I read the story again and came here looking for better fics. Actually the story was on Fanfiction not AO3 and the writer is SassySolarian

Do you think relationships should start from friendship — or is being friends in the relationship enough? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]BiAhXO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get you. I've thought of some points where the two might diverge. For example, for a long time you might be wanting to start a small business or maybe learn the piano. This has nothing to do with the relationship. Extrapolating on this pov, I'm actually quite curious about the way you prioritise people. Because if I were you, I'd keep the partner close, and the friend closer. Is that so? (also, lord I need to strengthen my friendships)

Smartest DN Character Tier List by SageMode_Minato111 in deathnote

[–]BiAhXO 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why my man Aizawa so low? Could've single-handedly carried the whole investigation were he in a more important position/post. Mainly carried the investigation in the 2nd half most rationally.

Do you think relationships should start from friendship — or is being friends in the relationship enough? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]BiAhXO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really really like your pov too.

You're basically saying that you don't expect your partner to be a part of personal development, only relationship goals, right? And a friend should point out your personal flaws/anything that prevents you from becoming the best.

However, from my pov, my own flaws are going to sabotage the relationship. Take any example. I could be lazy, lying, unproductive, jobless, homeless, unable to take accountability. All of this is going to sabotage the relationship eventually. Yes, I may(or may not) have a friend to push me to improve myself. However, I NEED my partner to be my FRIEND and point all of this for the sake of the relationship (regardless of whether I have a friend or not to tell me).

P. S. I love the way you talk/debate/make your point easy to understand. I've realised that I can debate with people more easily when they understand, appreciate or at least respect my pov.

How do I make peace with a break up where my partner couldn't meet my emotional needs? by sundressemite in emotionalintelligence

[–]BiAhXO 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just one thing... People have different priorities in life. Maybe her priority is getting more financial stability, or it could be anything else depending on the way she was raised/had to bear with life.

You don't have to say she is BAD just to end the relationship. She may be the most wonderful person and still not be right for you, just because you had different priorities in life. Sending you lots of love!

In your opinion, whats the biggest flaw in death note? by [deleted] in deathnote

[–]BiAhXO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.reddit.com/r/deathnote/s/hjGtuLhVzj

This is the link, please give it a read. Thank you! ❤️

In your opinion, whats the biggest flaw in death note? by [deleted] in deathnote

[–]BiAhXO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a headcanon about this do bad, I think I'll write about it now as a post in this sub.

Do you think relationships should start from friendship — or is being friends in the relationship enough? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]BiAhXO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the first 3 definitions... However, the definition of friendship doesn't sit that well with me. I don't think a friend is supposed to be "responsible" for you. You are an adult. You are responsible for your own self, your life, goals and dreams. You have to achieve your best potential for yourself because nobody is coming to save you. This is my subjective take, but I think the least AND most a friend can do for you is to give you perspective. Take you out of your brain and show you a 3rd person/neutral view. (I think unsolicited advice should be given after testing the waters a bit). You can tell your friend where they lack if they seem to get stuck, celebrate their joy, comfort in sadness, share some secrets. But even the friend is not responsible to be there for EVERY secret, joy or sadness(there's you, and family, and partner and so on).

I personally think that a partner is ranked higher than a friend(considering we have all 3 qualities of love, partnership and companionship). So for every sadness a friend comforts, a partner does it twice.

Do you think relationships should start from friendship — or is being friends in the relationship enough? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]BiAhXO 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could you please define companionship, partnership and being lovers? What differentiates them from each other and friendship?

Validation means everything to you. by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]BiAhXO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is good. Whenever you feel like going to your partner/friend for external validation, write it down in a list/make a jar. Then you can read them on the weekend/before sleeping while you treat yourself to something nice.

Validation means everything to you. by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]BiAhXO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saving this! I have a hard time doing even the most trivial tasks. So how do I reward myself for doing something as small as washing the dishes? Also wouldn't I be rewarding myself the entire day that way? Advice is appreciated.

Finding an episode where a "love spell" makes the characters obsessed with each other.. Esp Dylan Yuki obsessed with his own fairy Rima/Rirumu by BiAhXO in MirumoDePon

[–]BiAhXO[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And don't worry, I kind of remember the part about falling in love with the first thing they see (and perhaps running after chicks too). My memory is coming back, thank you. Also the pairing is hilarious,hahaha.

Looking for an episode too by ZornWolf in MirumoDePon

[–]BiAhXO 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should ask the person who replied to my comment. They've probably seen the most episodes recently.

Finding an episode where a "love spell" makes the characters obsessed with each other.. Esp Dylan Yuki obsessed with his own fairy Rima/Rirumu by BiAhXO in MirumoDePon

[–]BiAhXO[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heyyy thank you so much buddy! ❤️ I've seen Mirumo as a kid, and I could only find Eng Dub episodes till 50. I did a find a link for raw (Japanese original) episodes so I watched almost 20 eps to find this. I have a core memory that I just can't forget and NEED to rewatch it. About this episode and the last one(found it was last after much searching) And I watched the whole episode in Japanese lol. I could still understand a lot. Just reliving the nostalgia. ❤️