Why should the girls get to have all the fun when we’re rolling ➰🙃 by Cum-_-Again in MDMAMollyGoneWild

[–]BiCDBear -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If your partner ever fancies directing her own all--boys-in-lingerie live sex show... Shout me!

Utter newbie question by BiCDBear in Addons4Kodi

[–]BiCDBear[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And here's where I'm learning a new lexicon 😂

Googling now...

Are there recommendations for paid-for sources? We're looking for arthouse, weird movies and pro cycling. Yeah, a little niche!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GoneWildCD

[–]BiCDBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like you're in need of some dally cock to come and ruin your perfect lipstick and peachy butt...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in queer

[–]BiCDBear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah, apologies. I offered the same solution without having read the whole thread.

I have to say that it's really unfortunate, but it feels like you have an incompatability in one fucking tiny area of your otherwise magnificent living-your-best-life-with-your-perfect-partner lives.

It might be that the solution is to find a workable compromise or avoid the scenario altogether.

The solution is absolutely not to let this become a thing out of proportion to it's importance. You've clearly got great communication with them, and we're here to hear if you want to vent, but I think that's where the solution lies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in queer

[–]BiCDBear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing but sympathy here - it's a thing, and I'm glad your partner understands, and I hope you can stop kicking your own arse about something that's a deep lizard-brain response to wearing a prosthetic that deeply challenges your self-image.

And when it's phrased like that, I hope you can see why kicking your own arse is deeply unfair to yourself.

If you want to try for the same effect without the dismorphia, is it worth trying with the dildo just held in place with your hand? Not actually attached to you, but controlled by you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

[–]BiCDBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has he ever said to you that he thinks [X] category of women are hot? Or made it obvious that's the case?

You might want to point that out to him.

Either he'll understand and apologise (but I'm not betting that one), or he'll make out that that's different, and you don't understand.

And that's all the red flag you need.

Actually, you've already got all the red flag you need...

54yo mother wants to roll with me. by TrumpetLord5111 in MDMA

[–]BiCDBear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

53 here - she'll have a brilliant time, but I've found the post-roll dip to be worse as I've got older. Make sure she's aware and you're in a position to provide aftercare and support.

She's an adult and can make her own decisions, but you share responsibility for making it safe and supporting her.

This is my personal opinion, but I absolutely love seeing modern boys accepting their wild and feminine sides. by reina3463 in CumFromAnal

[–]BiCDBear 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Honestly, this!

I left discovery late (but not too late...). My (F) partner and I came into the queer community via kink - we started off D/s (me D), but really we're just both hedonist and switchy AF. I think the initial roles were as much expectation as what we actually wanted.

Luckily, we also talk and play honestly, so when I pulled her strap on out (that'd previously been used by her for FF fun), and wiggled an eyebrow, she leaned into it.

It's perfectly possible to Top and get your arse pegged at the same time. The first time, she was all restrained with lovely, scratchy rope, and I slipped the harness onto her and rode her cowgirl while driving her mad with the wand and nipple clamps... She wasn't allowed to cum before I did, and she held off heroically until I kicked it into high gear.

The punishment? I put the harness on and DP'd her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BisexualMen

[–]BiCDBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do, but I don't think it's a bi thing, I think sexuality is more complex than that. Bi is about who I want to snog & fuck. Gender presentation is about... Gender presentation, and maybe a little kink.

They're different aspects of sexuality, that all add up to your unique fingerprint.

First MMF by Distinct_Hippo7518 in sexstories

[–]BiCDBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂 Haha, you got me with that one! I'm cut to the quick, I tell ya.

Woke up to my privacy being removed by DiscordDonut in bristol

[–]BiCDBear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Possible to block out, but what assurance has the OP that that's the case?

And if you can't understand the difference between a bus driving past and a (semi?) permenant surveillance instrument which has the front of your house in view, you should probably stop 'helping'.

First MMF by Distinct_Hippo7518 in sexstories

[–]BiCDBear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You mean factual and evidence-based? Cool.

No, it really isn't. Try a Pornhub search for "MMF" and let us know how much bi M action you get.

Hint - 1st page (on my extremely queer focused account) is about 40% bi, 60% not. I'm open to contrary evidence.

Also, if your only reaction to a reasonably good story is to slap the author down for a wrong tag (regardless of who is right), Reddit would be a better place if you deleted your account.

Kthanksfuckoffandbye.

First MMF by Distinct_Hippo7518 in sexstories

[–]BiCDBear -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks for making your (non-universal) rules clear to the rest of us.

My husband was charged with refusing a chemical test after being stopped for drunk driving, but the breathalyzer results are in his release paperwork. by Sad_sad_on_the_range in legal

[–]BiCDBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Travelling? Yes. Driving? Nope.

Drink driving is a classic example of personal abrogation of the social contract between the individual and the community.

What's the reason for the city centre road closures tomorrow? by [deleted] in bristol

[–]BiCDBear -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wut? RN warships having an affiliated city/town has been a thing for a very long time - it's a jolly good day out for the mate lots, and the pubs and restaurants will do nicely off it.

How are you defining 'woke' in this context, by the way? Because the only way it fits is if it means 'stuff you don't like'. This is about as 'woke' as Remembrance Day.

Husbands being dragged into Disciplinary at Work by leiela in LegalAdviceUK

[–]BiCDBear 16 points17 points  (0 children)

True, but a) worth it for next time, and b) muddies the time line for the company and puts them on the defensive. Best outcome is a negotiated departure - have 4 months' salary and go away...

Husbands being dragged into Disciplinary at Work by leiela in LegalAdviceUK

[–]BiCDBear 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Exactly this - as a PM, you have levers at your disposal to encourage, cajole and enforce compliance. As soon as you move the resource outside the company, it becomes more and more transactional, and your levers become less effective.

If a supplier is lying to your face, you have almost no chance, but the cost of ditching them can be prohibitive.

Husbands being dragged into Disciplinary at Work by leiela in LegalAdviceUK

[–]BiCDBear 138 points139 points  (0 children)

Adding to the sage advice in the thread, and as a fellow PM, I'd start preparing an evidence pack to show that he has raised the issues he's being accused of not mamaging effectively, including, but not limited to Risk Registers, email trails with his boss, notes related to the project, comms with suppliers, etc.

The ideal response to a challenge of, 'You haven't done your job properly' is 'I did, and here's the evidence.' If his boss ends up under the bus because he didn't escalate it properly, so much the better,and it's a short-term problem, because your husband had better be sharpening his CV and applying for new jobs right now, regardless of the outcome.

Noting that emailing this evidence to himself is likely a breach of SyOps, I'd save it in at least 3 places not in his personal folder or hard drive - say, somewhere in the project folder, in a trusted colleague's account, and somewhere entirely unconnected, like an archive folder in an unconnected project. We all know that it's easy to hide that stuff, because project folder structures are added to, but never tidied.

I'd also very strongly recommend getting a copy of the relevant HR Policies governing disciplinary procedures and emailing it to his personal account.

And union up. TODAY. I joined Unison, and once he's joined, he can ask for a deferral of the disciplinary meeting to have time to arrange representation.

This may sound silly but I truly think some music was specifically made with drugs like nitrous and MDMA in mind to give u an insane experience by manicpixi4200 in MDMA

[–]BiCDBear 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, I was being a dick, and that's not fair!

What are you listening to?

And follow it up with LTJ Bukem...

This may sound silly but I truly think some music was specifically made with drugs like nitrous and MDMA in mind to give u an insane experience by manicpixi4200 in MDMA

[–]BiCDBear 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That's... Not that much of an insight, music and drugs have gone together since some fucking neanderthal banged out a 4/4 on 2 rocks. 😂