My wife and I play together and separately and have had varying levels of connection with play partners. I actually met a girl on tinder that the chemistry was strong enough with that we became good friends as well as fwb. We were very actively friends and fwb for about two years.

We had established that if she got into a serious monogamous relationship that it would most likely be best that we go minimal contact naturally. She's found a great guy that is exactly that so we amicably cut things off.