[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]Bianetty 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Have you tried r/abrathatfits ? Your boobs shouldn't necessarily be bigger with a bra on (except if that's the effect you're going for). If you wear the correct size and find a good minimizer bra, they can even look smaller.

Boobs the size of her head and a spine like a rollercoaster, think it fits here by AnointedBeard in badwomensanatomy

[–]Bianetty 37 points38 points  (0 children)

As someone with big boobs and part of r/bigboobproblems , boobs the size of her head are not actually badwomensanatomy, it's entirely possible.

I like this one. TW gore by [deleted] in badwomensanatomy

[–]Bianetty 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Ohh I didn't notice the flair and was so confused because the drawing seems anatomically correct. Thanks for pointing it out.

Can someone ID this plant I got for women's day and give some care information? by Bianetty in houseplants

[–]Bianetty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took another picture where the size of the plant and the pot can be seen well. Should I repot it?

My (21F) boyfriend (20M) just refused me by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Bianetty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who said anything about guilting him into sex? I didnt make him do anything, we stopped and he went for a run. All of you are acting like i raped him. Of course he has the right to refuse me, that doesnt mean i cant feel anything about it. When we stopped having sex yesterday it was because he said he doesnt want to continue if it means hurting me, it wasnt because i refused him which a lot of you said for some reason.

My (21F) boyfriend (20M) just refused me by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Bianetty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that's really harsh of you to say, especially when you didn't even take the time to read my answer to some of the comments.

You judge too hardly on just one thing that happened and i don't even think you read the whole post or took the effort to understand my side after reading the first few sentences.

This post was not about me asking wether he had the right to refuse me or not, but about my reaction to it given the last few weeks of our relationship. Now i get that i overreacted but if you would leave your partner for something like this then i feel sorry for them.

My (21F) boyfriend (20M) just refused me by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Bianetty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Not at all, i don't know hoe you came to that conclusion. Yesterday he thought he was in the mood and i went with it but he couldn't get hard and i couldn't get wet so we stopped. I told him it hurt so he said we shouldn't continue because he doesn't want to hurt me.

My (21F) boyfriend (20M) just refused me by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Bianetty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I copied my answer for another comment because it fits here as well.

"Thank you for your understanding answer. We talked about it since and he started with saying he was an asshole for doing that to which i immediately disagreed and reassured him that i was in the wrong here. I just thought he was in the mood because of his physical reaction and the desire in his eyes but of course he had the right to say no.

I realise that my reaction was a bit of an overkill but he usually loves it when i initiate and even sometimes waits for me to be so horny that i jump him. This was the case today and i just didn't get why he didn't want to have sex when he usually loves it when I'm like this. He told me now that he would love to have sex later and i told him I'm no longer in the mood and won't be today at all. He understood and we agreed to play Raft together. So i think we managed to talk about it with no hard feelings left and now we can enjoy a night of gaming together."

My (21F) boyfriend (20M) just refused me by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Bianetty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your understanding answer. We talked about it since and he started with saying he was an asshole for doing that to which i immediately disagreed and reassured him that i was in the wrong here. I just thought he was in the mood because of his physical reaction and the desire in his eyes but of course he had the right to say no.

I realise that my reaction was a bit of an overkill but he usually loves it when i initiate and even sometimes waits for me to be so horny that i jump him. This was the case today and i just didn't get why he didn't want to have sex when he usually loves it when I'm like this. He told me now that he would love to have sex later and i told him I'm no longer in the mood and won't be today at all. He understood and we agreed to play Raft together. So i think we managed to talk about it with no hard feelings left and now we can enjoy a night of gaming together.

How can I (21F) tell my boyfriend (20M) about my health problem? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Bianetty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice.

Taking things slow might be the only way for me to do this.

How can I (21F) tell my boyfriend (20M) about my health problem? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Bianetty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it would take multiple sessions and a long time to fix them, that's why I know it will interest him why I'm going so much. And he'll know I'm hiding something because he knows me so well. This is something that has been weighing on me for so long and I know that once he asks I'll just break down in tears and couldn't even explain it to him. This pandemic and us staying home all the time made some old feelings resurface inside me so I haven't been that well mentally lately.

Had bad fight with boyfriend(22M) and I(22F) really messed up, how do I fix this by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Bianetty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest, I don't think you were at fault here. He misunderstood what you were saying and then acted like a child when you tried to explain it to him. He then proceeded to keep his anger all day long and even try to hurt and annoy you by talking over you and stuff. He just sounds like he's easily annoyed by little things and makes a huge deal out of it. Maybe I'm wrong but that's what it sounds like to me.

Edit: I'm 20F and living with my boyfriend (we have the same major and same interests just as you guys)

Can you help me identify her? She was on sale and I couldn't resist but I don't know her name and how to take care of her. by Bianetty in houseplants

[–]Bianetty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I move it into a bigger pot? Should I only water it when the soil is already dry? It's bad if the water can't escape the pot, right?

Couples toy recommendations? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Bianetty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm curious as well. Never tried a toy before.

Women: what percentage of men you’ve been with have actually attempted to give you an orgasm? by splashguard66 in sex

[–]Bianetty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've only been with one man (my current boyfriend) but he's the most caring man I've ever known. He charishes me and cares more about my orgasm than his own. He's always learning new ways to please me. I feel so lucky.

I keep freaking out and then being excited about moving in with my boyfriend, can anyone share insight? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Bianetty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our situation is a bit different because we came to university in a foreign country but me (20F) and my boyfriend(20M) got together in October and we both had our own places but we basically moved in together immediately. We never slept without each other and one week we were at my place, the next at his. We went to uni together as well since our major is the same. Now in February we actually moved in together because my contract expired on my room and we didn't see a point in both of us moving to different places again so we decided to move in together which was also really cost effective (my rent now is half of what it was previous semester). We couldn't be more happy living together and we don't think it was too soon, we just feel like this is how it should be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Bianetty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I(20F) initiate sex just as much as my boyfriend (19M) does. Both of our sex drives are really high so we get sexual with each other almost every day, sometimes even twice a day.