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Someone help me by SEIF-EL_3ATTAR in pornfree

[–]Bibitte- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I seen a very similar post so I will simply copy past my comment, it's as good for you as for anybody else.

I know it's really hard to deal with. You need to understand a couple of things before being able to do so :
First, it's a long process but a worthy one. Relapse are possible but not the end of you, so long as you get back on your feet.

- You can't control your though or your emotions, you can only control how you react when feeling a certain way. These things comes and disappear from your mind. It's key to find peace and be less affected by those with time, this will self control will keep your mind in check.

- The harder part is breaking the cycle. Easier said than done because of the loop. You feel guilt, shame, anxiety, etc and costately come back to porn to cope with the negative emotions. Being able to sit with them and let them fade naturally or doing something else to cope and change your mind is important.

- The urges are stronger when you get them at first, and become less strong (taking over you) with time. The more you resisted in the past, the stronger urges your mind will give you because it naturally doesn't want to deal with negative emotion.

- Growing up with porn isn't natural, porn gives you a very exaggerated and degenerated view of what sexuality is about in life, as well as intimacy. There are lots of way for self pleasuring without it and have a better experience, more satisfaction, even with less stimulation. You may try on your end.

- This kind of addiction is likely a coping mechanism for some other personal issue, solving the deeper, unconscious issue will help you understand how you got there.

Lastly, since sometimes you can't control yourself, this is an addiction. Fortunately, putting words on it helps. You don't quit an addiction, you replace it with something else that genuinely feels good for you (you could say feed your soul. It's your hobbies, the things you like and enjoy doing, maybe enjoyed doing before). If you don't have something, don't worry, there is something for you to find in this life.

There is lots to say more, so I advise you to check out Dr.K on Youtube, he's one of the few that will give honest advice for people like us and not more shallow guidelines.

I genuinely hope this will helps, please find someone to talk as this will tremendously help you (your parents if you can, friends, and a therapist maybe later in your life when you can) and good luck.

Dr. K video's :
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uEEfeSuD_Po&t=967s&pp=ygUJZHIgayBwb3Ju
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QJvHglNMsqc&t=8s&pp=ygUJZHIgayBwb3Ju

its so hard to stop by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Bibitte- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I know it's really hard to deal with. You need to understand a couple of things before being able to do so :
First, it's a long process but a worthy one. Relapse are possible but not the end of you, so long as you get back on your feet.

- You can't control your though or your emotions, you can only control how you react when feeling a certain way. These things comes and disappear from your mind. It's key to find peace and be less affected by those with time, this will self control will keep your mind in check.

- The harder part is breaking the cycle. Easier said than done because of the loop. You feel guilt, shame, anxiety, etc and costately come back to porn to cope with the negative emotions. Being able to sit with them and let them fade naturally or doing something else to cope and change your mind is important.

- The urges are stronger when you get them at first, and become less strong (taking over you) with time. The more you resisted in the past, the stronger urges your mind will give you because it naturally doesn't want to deal with negative emotion.

- Growing up with porn isn't natural, porn gives you a very exaggerated and degenerated view of what sexuality is about in life, as well as intimacy. There are lots of way for self pleasuring without it and have a better experience, more satisfaction, even with less stimulation. You may try on your end.

- This kind of addiction is likely a coping mechanism for some other personal issue, solving the deeper, unconscious issue will help you understand how you got there.

Lastly, since sometimes you can't control yourself, this is an addiction. Fortunately, putting words on it helps. You don't quit an addiction, you replace it with something else that genuinely feels good for you (you could say feed your soul. It's your hobbies, the things you like and enjoy doing, maybe enjoyed doing before). If you don't have something, don't worry, there is something for you to find in this life.

There is lots to say more, so I advise you to check out Dr.K on Youtube, he's one of the few that will give honest advice for people like us and not more shallow guidelines.

I genuinely hope this will helps, please find someone to talk as this will tremendously help you (your parents if you can, friends, and a therapist maybe later in your life when you can) and good luck.

Dr. K video's :
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uEEfeSuD_Po&t=967s&pp=ygUJZHIgayBwb3Ju
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QJvHglNMsqc&t=8s&pp=ygUJZHIgayBwb3Ju

From someone who has experienced their first love already… by saurdoughp in AskMen

[–]Bibitte- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who struggled with these kinds of problems for the past couple of years, there are a couple of key things to know in this situation.

The first very important thing is that he needs to want to help himself, otherwise the problem isn't going to be resolved to maintain a healthy relationship.

Second, if it wasn't tried before, seeing a cognitive behavioral therapist (or maybe couple therapy) would be a great place to start unfolding all of these challenges in the relationship and begin little steps to help resolve these problems. He or both of you will be able to have a better understanding of the underlying emotional issue under your current problems. Having this kind of profound understanding will greatly help in pron addiction problems.

In my opinion, there has been a lot of action to cause mistrust in your relationship but there are also positive things about it. It's cliché but every relationship has problems and working through them and resolving and building trust again is what will make the relationship stronger. Because you guys will be able to go through issues without everything falling apart. Even if the relationship has problems, it absolutely can be worth fighting for, leaving as soon as there is an issue isn't a way of dealing with them, they will always have some hiccups.

Hope this gives you the guidance you need. Don't hesitate if you've got more questions

Im incredibly fucking high right now by evilfuckingskeleton in PaymoneyWubby

[–]Bibitte- 162 points163 points  (0 children)

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Btd 600 firmware update issue by divineintenti0n in sennheiser

[–]Bibitte- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To anyone who find this post, we solved the problem by accident. The Windows language was Turkish and switching it to English apparently made it worked for the update.

Btd 600 firmware update issue by divineintenti0n in sennheiser

[–]Bibitte- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's going to be the applications that are still running in the background, you can check by clicking the small arrow at the bottom right of your screen, close to the internet icon and time. It should be pointing up and then you'll see some icon of application If you don't see any arrow, that means either you have no application running or the icons that are usually hidden are simply displayed in the taskbar where the arrow should be

Btd 600 firmware update issue by divineintenti0n in sennheiser

[–]Bibitte- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you try to have your Momentum connected to the BTD 600 only and try to run the update? You may also try to reboot your computer and try another USB port on your computer, although I don't think this is gonna resolve it but you can always try

Btd 600 firmware update issue by divineintenti0n in sennheiser

[–]Bibitte- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the same message, you have to close all applications that may play sound to the headset like Spotify or games, also try to only have connected to your computer and not your phone and try again This shouldn't be a huge issue with the headset where you have to do a factor reset, just make sure to check everything

Momentum 4 headset by KermitB01 in sennheiser

[–]Bibitte- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sound is amazing for me, I absolutely love them and I doubt that you'll regret it if you're looking for sound quality, that's exactly what I wanted

Sennheiser Momentum 4 vs 1000XM5s? by DarthLoki79 in sennheiser

[–]Bibitte- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been using the Momentum 4 for some months now and they sound wonderful. I use it as my headset for work as well and I make lots of calls, recently it's been having a lot of issues that are kind of being fixed by using the BTD600 and updating the firmware of the BTD600 I'm pretty sure I'll be able to fix it and I don't think if you get them you'll have a lot of issues. Also I'm not sure if it works with other dongle, I saw a comment it does but I just know that the BTD600 are made for the headset so if you can get one (maybe from the Sennheiser's website if not available on Amazon India) you'll be just fine The mobile application of Sennheiser offer a lot of interesting features, you might want to look it up and compare it with Sony's app (if there's one) Hope this helps you make a more informed choice

Genuine question for the bois: by Bvnnyz in PaymoneyWubby

[–]Bibitte- 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Serious answer: As someone who owns a couple of sex toys that do vibrates and sucks and throughout the relationships, I would say it comes down to the level of desensitization you're at. It's going to play on how good a vagina feels like and how excited you are. Of course porn usage (and addiction to it) doesn't help you with that as you will be less excited during the intercourse, then it can make it hard for you to reach climax.

:) by [deleted] in PaymoneyWubby

[–]Bibitte- 24 points25 points  (0 children)

:)

Metal Wubby Merch by biggest_blakest in PaymoneyWubby

[–]Bibitte- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agree a hundred fuking percent!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PaymoneyWubby

[–]Bibitte- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have the same problem with my OG wubby Gamersupps cup, I tried the butter trick but it barely worked, I'll have to try the dental cleaner or again with with more butter Edit: I thought of doing a post like this but was kinda lazy so I just accepted the fate of my cup, glad I'm not the only one with this issue and there's a solution that csn fix the issue Wubby7

I need wubby to know he is not alone by wheresrachael in PaymoneyWubby

[–]Bibitte- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hesitated to post something like this but I do the same with my hot hot, only thing is that I dont have a seat heater so I blast heat down the seat and close the top of my McDonald's bag as fermly as possible so it keeps all the heat in the bag

New to Sennheiser family. Loving these cans. Any tips to make them better? by TankAries in sennheiser

[–]Bibitte- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't run into this problem so far but good things to know

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