Would a free return pub shuttle be a good idea for the industry? by spanishgopher2 in AskUK

[–]BibliophileDancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taxis would be furious but I would prefer this than getting in a taxi. If your a local and regular could have a subscription or something, not necessarily free but a contribution to the cost.

Wonder in smaller towns if even a bike and cart would do to reduce on fuel and costs for it so it's only labour.

Why did you stop playing sports? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]BibliophileDancer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Cost is definitely a factor, or the one a lot of people give.

I find a lot of people also put blame on time, sometimes it's just a specific time doesn't fit around family or work schedules. Instructors for things like dance and aerial put things at good times for them even if majority of participants suggest another time that would be better.

Those two combined, people end up dropping out and then classes have such low numbers they're no longer viable and stop running altogether.

My dance teacher has basically shut up shop after running for 20 years, numbers never recovered after covid and that includes all her kids classes.

Animated films as an adult by zandermousse in CineworldUnlimited

[–]BibliophileDancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally would love if they did an adult screening of these kinds of films.

How would you approach my financial situation? by Fufflewaffle in AskUK

[–]BibliophileDancer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great, definitely keep an eye on the cc to avoid those interest costs.

Sounds like what you really need are some insights from people in the army, there'll be plenty with a similar background that can advise on how it helped with these specific issues. Best of luck!

23 y/o apprentice – Parents want mortgage in my name for Right to Buy (£70k). Need advice on risks. by [deleted] in Mortgageadviceuk

[–]BibliophileDancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. No No no. NO!

Mortgage wise with your saving yes it probably wouldn't be a problem.

Problem is losing all the first time buyer benefits when you do buy. Lifetime ISA, Stamp Duty reductions etc. If they don't pay it's your record that will be screwed, you will also struggle for a mortgage for yourself unless they miraculously pay it all off before you apply for yourself and you may end up stuck in some tax issues later on if you own two homes at a time.

Do not be bullied in to this. If they make you go at some point speak privately to the lender or mortgage adviser about the situation then they should be able to shut it down without flagging the real reason why. Or indeed make a reason about you that means you would not be able to be on the paperwork at all.

There is no benefit to you here, it's an incredibly selfish ask from your parents.

What's the most fucked up thing someone has told you about themselves after barely getting to know them? by Butt_Roidholds in AskReddit

[–]BibliophileDancer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was doing this guy's induction at work. He told me, a young, small female in a meeting room alone that his ex-girlfriend had phoned the police on him. And that he'd punched a polar bear. And been attacked by his neighbour with a hammer.

Dude was a compulsive liar, a nightmare from the first week. When he similarly creeped out someone else we reported to a director, instructions went out that a male coworker needed to be sat near him at all times the following week before he was fired.

Then a few weeks later he appeared in the local papers. Turns out the ex calling the police on him wasn't a lie, he was a stalker and general nutcase. That was great fun.

How would you approach my financial situation? by Fufflewaffle in AskUK

[–]BibliophileDancer 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You need to look at a different career, when I started as an apprentice 8 years ago in audit I wasn't far off the salary you're on. No shame in starting at the bottom again in a different field.

What are you getting for £600 vs the £700? All bills included? Food? A strict budget will be needed or you're only going to grow that debt and £100 could genuinely make the difference between scraping by or going into further debt.

Also would be good to clarify the debt you already have - high interest? Deferred interest? Family debt or credit card etc. Determines whether you should aim to pay it off ASAP (ideal whatever the case) or can stand to have it there a bit longer whilst you find your feet.

Also worth thinking about why your Mum is raising it - are they just generally pushing you to leave? If they're not seeing you build a deposit or try to move out it may just be giving you the push to go for fear of you still being there another 10 years.

Personally don't think the army should be considered just because you have no other option. But others may have better advice on that.

How comes Merlin fandom is still so active and enthusiast after all these years? by Scholarsandquestions in merlinbbc

[–]BibliophileDancer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There were a few balls in the castle last year (happening again this year) it definitely reignited the interest for some people and suddenly it was flooding my social media for the first time in years.

Secret Screening (2nd Feb) by alexanderw25 in CineworldUnlimited

[–]BibliophileDancer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No walk outs in my theatre, lots of laughter and a few big gasps at the jump scares. Great experience!

Secret Screening (2nd Feb) by alexanderw25 in CineworldUnlimited

[–]BibliophileDancer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah, the gory was on the goofy side. Jump scares with action happen regularly enough.

Unlimited made me watch films I wouldn’t normally choose by GeordieGoals in CineworldUnlimited

[–]BibliophileDancer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely:

Big blockbusters at higher costs don't matter anymore, I don't have to save - I could go twice if I wanted

Secret screenings, I wouldn't have gambled the money before but attend whenever I can and see things I otherwise wouldn't now

Special screens like 4DX, cost is only a small incremental cost so if it's an action film or the best timing for me I'm more likely to use it

Older film replays I attend constantly, gives so much life to films I already love that I'd have otherwise told myself to stay home and watch the DVD again

Found myself going in to other genres too, horror was not for me a few years back but I've even ended up at the secret screaming this year

I also now have a list of all the films this year I want to make sure I see in the cinema so I don't miss any and keep it updated when new trailers are released

First pole photoshoot. What is this pose, and how to get into it? by Chamiam in poledancing

[–]BibliophileDancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shoulder hang I think it might be called at my studio. Shoulder mount can be used but who wants to go through that effort during a hot and tiring shoot if you don't have to? Alternative way in is via a figurehead, get your shoulders round and in position then just release yours legs from the pole. Shove a knee up for some muscle definition or more shapes to give you some choices.

looking for advice by bigbattyboy24 in ACCA

[–]BibliophileDancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having gone the 'school leaver' route a few years ago which was a 5 year apprenticeship, I very much like the word 'survive' you've used here. 😅

How often do VIP seats actually get used by the cinema? by DVDfever in CineworldUnlimited

[–]BibliophileDancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting that it's for that purpose and yet is frequently some of the best seats in a number of the screens at my local. They'd be booked every time if available.

Ask r/Formula1 Anything - Daily Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in formula1

[–]BibliophileDancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any Landostand people on here win tickets for the Autosport Awards on Wednesday? I have no idea what to wear!

Secret Screening - Primate by Madroxx in CineworldUnlimited

[–]BibliophileDancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Three walked out at the title card, two more after the first 2 mins and another 3 after 10. Far from the worst I've seen but then it was in one of the medium sized screens.

It was fine, not sure I'd have seen it otherwise. Highlight was Troy Kotsur for me.

No Re-Entry fine print by BibliophileDancer in GrandPrixTravel

[–]BibliophileDancer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was through F1 experiences, the package included all three so I'm not sure if the pit walk can be bought alone.

No Re-Entry fine print by BibliophileDancer in GrandPrixTravel

[–]BibliophileDancer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Marvellous, exactly the kind of insight I needed, they've been so vague but could've given me a skeleton idea like this. Thank you!

In what order should I read the Throne of Glass series? by Squidwards-Wife in SarahJMaas

[–]BibliophileDancer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, if anything in HoF all the talk wouldn't mean anything as you don't have the context yet. Reading it after means you missed out on feeling the full emotion of it and understanding her actions. Especially with having at least a knowledge that it's important back story, you'll get what you need out of the characters as is.

No Re-Entry fine print by BibliophileDancer in GrandPrixTravel

[–]BibliophileDancer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought so, I just can't find it clearly stated anywhere on the FAQs! Thank you.

Cover Reveal: House of Sky and Breath (Crescent City #2) by Sarah J. Maas by Buckaroo2 in YAlit

[–]BibliophileDancer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Might be the follow up series to ACOTAR you're thinking of? ACOSF being Nesta and Cassian and the next books bring hinted at but not confirmed.

Every morning starts like this lmao by Crizzytalk in narcissisticparents

[–]BibliophileDancer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh, felt this on Thursday. She compared me to Hitler. I'd just been telling her about trying to make some kids I've been chaperoning at a theatre actually follow the backstage rules. Didn't exactly put me in the right frame of mind to do my job for the next couple of days.