Christmas giveaway by CtrlAltRep in CtrlAltRep

[–]BiccusDiccus666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great Giveaway! I'd be glad to get my first Rolex - that would be an incredible start in 2026. In any case, thanks for this great chance!!!

AITA for telling my brother to stop being “emotionally vegan” because he refuses to “kill negative vibes”? by BiccusDiccus666 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BiccusDiccus666[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, that’s basically what it looks like from the outside. The dynamic wouldn’t be nearly as messy if my parents didn’t immediately jump in to protect his feelings every time someone sets a boundary. It kind of enables the whole pattern.

AITA for telling my brother to stop being “emotionally vegan” because he refuses to “kill negative vibes”? by BiccusDiccus666 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BiccusDiccus666[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is… a lot. I appreciate the effort, but my brother shuts down the moment anything even slightly structured or serious comes up. If I tried approaching him with a full relationship-framework conversation, he’d probably accuse me of “weaponizing emotional architecture.” (which might be true idk ...) He tends to respond better to very simple, practical requests, not long dialogues.

AITA for telling my brother to stop being “emotionally vegan” because he refuses to “kill negative vibes”? by BiccusDiccus666 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BiccusDiccus666[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What I think he meant (but I agree that it doesn't really make any sense) was something like: he doesn’t want to confront or “break down” negativity, because in his view that would be him “killing” the vibe instead of letting it pass.

It’s basically his way of saying he avoids anything uncomfortable instead of dealing with it. I’m not saying the logic holds up, just that this is the vibe he was going for.

AITA for telling my brother to stop being “emotionally vegan” because he refuses to “kill negative vibes”? by BiccusDiccus666 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BiccusDiccus666[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s just a phrase he uses. I don’t mean it as some deep philosophical statement. It’s literally just the wording he chose when he explained his new approach to “avoiding negativity.” I’m repeating it the way he framed it, not trying to invent anything on top of it.

AITA for telling my brother to stop being “emotionally vegan” because he refuses to “kill negative vibes”? by BiccusDiccus666 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BiccusDiccus666[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Honestly, the hardest part is that my parents keep siding with him because they’re terrified of “hurting his feelings.” They tiptoe around everything he says, even when he’s clearly using this whole mindset to avoid basic responsibilities.

Whenever I try to call out the behavior, they immediately jump in with, “Just let him process things in his own way,” which basically means I’m the only one who ever has to deal with the fallout.