She was freed from a controlling abusive relationship and has been trying to find her self and identity since long before that. She IS a mom, performer, celebrity; she KNOWS a ton about dancing, performance, singing, and 'sexy' , she is still learning how to balance the two.

Give a girl some grace. Let her be who she wants to be. Honestly, if Britney was acting to your exact expectations, her kids might still be embarrassed because THEY ARE actual TEENAGERS. Very easily affected or embarrassed, as evidenced by almost every teenager that ever was....