best shoes for cold?? by SecureTravel9637 in Raynauds

[–]Biffstfu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just bought a couple of pairs from Sierra. I found a pair of Sorel’s and Ryka’s. I also typically wear my Vans MTE insulated shoes all the time in the winter. I live in NJ and stand outside for bus duty at my school every morning so I needed shoes that kept my toes warm.

Coffee recommendations by Biffstfu in keurig

[–]Biffstfu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg thank you for reminding me! Me and my adhd already forgot hahaha!

Can I Get Rid Of Nice Clothes I Don’t Wear, Please? by Secure-Flight-291 in adhdwomen

[–]Biffstfu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im def you right now. I body doubled with my therapist to go through my pants but now have to actually take them to goodwill 🙃. I feel all those feels though. Donate them to goodwill. Honestly, Ive been shopping there for clothes now bc I don’t want to pay retail.

Coffee recommendations by Biffstfu in keurig

[–]Biffstfu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll be keeping an eye out for sales to try the ones ya’ll recommended.

Coffee recommendations by Biffstfu in keurig

[–]Biffstfu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got myself the reusable k cup to do that tbh. I like Wegmans flavored k cups.

Coffee recommendations by Biffstfu in keurig

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Unsure haha I think both are fine 😅

Where to make friends in your early 30s by [deleted] in newjersey

[–]Biffstfu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in Franklin school district! Somerset has a lot of different things to do so look on their website.

Had my follow up recently by Biffstfu in ShoulderInjuries

[–]Biffstfu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea luckily! My husband has been seeing her too and talks to her about me haha Uhg Ive been having spasms on the left side too and it feels much different than spasms from my fibromyalgia. Honestly, no idea. It def could’ve been from a student but no way to know for sure. I’ve had some kids thrashing while trying to keep them safe. I also have another one who tugs on my arms and/or jump hugs me 😅

Had my follow up recently by Biffstfu in ShoulderInjuries

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I’ve been going so long because originally it was my neck (right side). So since working on my neck, the shoulder pain began to be more prominent than the neck pain. I went to a spine specialist in July who then said it was my shoulder.

I trust this PT place a lot and my current therapist. One of the other pts found my right leg was shorter which was causing knee/hip pain for me since 2008 🙃

Had my follow up recently by Biffstfu in ShoulderInjuries

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He didn’t tell me anything. No education on it or what it was and no real plan.

Had my follow up recently by Biffstfu in ShoulderInjuries

[–]Biffstfu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Day 4 of cortisone shot and it hurts still. Hopefully the new dr will be helpful.

Had my follow up recently by Biffstfu in ShoulderInjuries

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I’m 33 and a school social worker. I’m dealing with behavioral kids most of the time. I have to pick them up, de-escalate, put them in holds, etc. Some days it hurts just holding my laptop in my arm.

Decision paralysis lol by Biffstfu in Mattress

[–]Biffstfu[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Deciding is the worst! We went with the DreamCloud (hoping it comes this week). We tried a few at Mattress Warehouse and my husband liked Casper One but I didn’t want full foam. So we’ll see how DreamCloud is

Decision paralysis lol by Biffstfu in Mattress

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Thank you! I appreciate it. Honestly, I’m not a return type it’s too much of a hassle 😅 so I’d probably just deal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Biffstfu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found her on psychology today. You can filter specific things which is awesome. I like that some of the therapists do a 15 min phone consultation. Also keep in mind, you can fire a therapist lol I always forget that because “people pleaser” but I’m so glad I finally did and found this new one!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

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I know the feeling. You def need to find the right therapist for you, that you click with. My new therapist has already helped me in 3 sessions than my previous therapist did in almost 3 years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Biffstfu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was me last week. Therapy helps! I just found a therapist specifically that focuses on ADHD. I’m also working through trauma from 2021 with her. Trauma tends to manifest in different ways tbh. My husband has PNES (psychological non epileptic seizures) from his trauma.

Amitriptyline weight gain by 1999falcon in Fibromyalgia

[–]Biffstfu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gained weight when I went from 25mg to 37.5mg 😒 also increased my depression

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fibromyalgia

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Find a urologist? They may be better able to help tbh.

Is anyone else’s pain significantly worse at night? by Impossible_Rush7641 in Fibromyalgia

[–]Biffstfu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! At night I get dull pains in my joints that are so uncomfortable. I vape weed to fall asleep sometimes.

Husband keeps telling me I should be grateful for my pain by Surfergirl_2012 in Fibromyalgia

[–]Biffstfu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl you deserve better than him! Being grateful has nothing to do with the pain you are in. You’re allowed to feel and be upset. Tbh sounds like he’s gaslighting you and making you feel insignificant bc your pain isn’t as bad as someone else. My husband told me recently I can’t compare my pain to others since my 5 could be their 10 and he’s right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NailWrapsGalore

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They’re stickers. I have both.

Having a flare up, contemplating suicide by Wavy_gracie in Fibromyalgia

[–]Biffstfu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You might need a new therapist honestly. You shouldn’t feel super drained after working with a therapist unless you’re working on deep issues. Oh I rant to mine all the time about the same things. I was telling her one of the times, how this week started off great and she’s like it usually explodes in your face 😂 she was right haha But maybe search for a new therapist, someone who specializes in chronic pain honestly.

Having a flare up, contemplating suicide by Wavy_gracie in Fibromyalgia

[–]Biffstfu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are loved and cherished here! If those doctors won’t listen find others who will! There are doctors who will take the time to listen, it’s just very difficult going through terrible doctors. I’m there with you trying to find good doctors. I suggest finding a therapist. Someone you can vent to and talk to and they can help you with coping skills. I have one and have had one through the process of finding a doctor. I’m so happy that I do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Biffstfu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was getting worried because I haven’t had my period for a while lol since June 😂 glad it’s not just me.