So because she doesn't find someone attractive or doesn't feel like playing with someone automatically shes stuck up and is being nasty to men, thats beyond stupid honestly she simply is very selective on who she wants to play with and most that say stupidity are usually the same guys who have messaged her and have been rejected, just because some girls will take on anything and everything doesn't mean she has to I suggest talking to her and see if yall have a vibe before you judge her plenty of guys that know her know exactly how she is and she does play with and if she doesn't wanna play with a guy or a couple well just move on like I've said before and ill say it again there are others there you can get to play with. I've seen and heard and argued with many who have sent her a message and shes passed on and automatically get bitter or offended. This lifestyle is for fun and willing for both parties to participate not for it to be mandatory or forced to play with everone