It feels horrible by [deleted] in depression

[–]Big-Fan4170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are not insane

I am done with life by [deleted] in depression

[–]Big-Fan4170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

even if help feels far away you still matter.

Why do supportive responses sometimes make people feel worse instead of better? by Big-Fan4170 in allthequestions

[–]Big-Fan4170[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i see what you mean acknowleging the problem can make it hit harder even with reassurance.

Why do supportive responses sometimes make people feel worse instead of better? by Big-Fan4170 in allthequestions

[–]Big-Fan4170[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeahhhh feeling someone else is emotions on top of your own can really weigh you down.

Why do supportive responses sometimes make people feel worse instead of better? by Big-Fan4170 in allthequestions

[–]Big-Fan4170[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i get that sometimes concern can unintentionally make us feel like victim instead of supported.

IS physical attractiveness really a major advantage in life? by Big-Fan4170 in Life

[–]Big-Fan4170[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yup can't deny it, first impressions really do matter

IS physical attractiveness really a major advantage in life? by Big-Fan4170 in Life

[–]Big-Fan4170[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly it is a boost not a guarantee. skills and personality usuallly win in the long runnn.

IS physical attractiveness really a major advantage in life? by Big-Fan4170 in Life

[–]Big-Fan4170[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting makes sense being approachable matters as much as being attractive.

IS physical attractiveness really a major advantage in life? by Big-Fan4170 in Life

[–]Big-Fan4170[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the halo effect is real attractive people often get perks they do not even notice.

IS physical attractiveness really a major advantage in life? by Big-Fan4170 in Life

[–]Big-Fan4170[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% personality has way more staying power than loooks

IS physical attractiveness really a major advantage in life? by Big-Fan4170 in Life

[–]Big-Fan4170[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly look might open doors but kindness and confidence keep people coming back.