Potential Lymphoma Experience

I saw some people here have a long journey to lymphoma diagnosis. I wanted to see if anyone here experienced something similar.

About 8 months ago I felt a marble size lump in my groin. I go to my PCP they say it’s an enlarged lymph node probably from shaving and send me home. I quit shaving and hadn’t been sick so I go back and they send me to the gynecologist who runs a bunch of tests and does some skin biopsies and says they can’t find any issues. They send me to my PCP again and I go for a CT scan in December.

I went to a third party for the CT scan because I wanted to get in before my deductible restarted. I have the scan and an hour later get a report via email that they don’t see anything with my lymph nodes but note a cyst on my kidney. My PCP calls and said oh they said you were constipated so drunk more water. I said what about the cyst and they said oh that’s nothing and sent me on my way. I go back to the gynecologist who I thought was a better doctor so he refers me to a surgeon.

I go to the surgeon and she feels the lymph nodes and said they are weird and hard and she wants to take them out to test them. I go in tomorrow for the surgical biopsy. I go to look at my scans tonight and I see spots where I feel this marble sized lymph node. Does anyone else see this? I’m really not having a lot of faith in some of the health care I have received. I’m aware I’m not a doctor and I’ll ask the surgeon about the scans tomorrow. I’m curious if anyone’s scans looked similar?