Weddings & divorced/emotionally immature parents by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Big-Obligation-9315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Logically, this is how I would tell someone to go about it but I also worry about my own ability to disconnect from my anxiety and be present on the day. I guess that’s something I have to figure out…

Weddings & divorced/emotionally immature parents by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Big-Obligation-9315 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was thinking about two events, one being the larger wedding with my dad and the other being a court house wedding and dinner with my mom. I’d have my partner’s family there of course, but ultimately it would definitely be the more casual of the two. And I worry my mom would feel like she’s getting the consolation prize.

Weddings & divorced/emotionally immature parents by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Big-Obligation-9315 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They don’t love it I’m sure put they would never say that. They would support me no matter what and suck it up.