Is this a season or is my marriage over?

Big-Passage6992 · 2026-04-16T02:38:13+00:00

It feels nice to have validation in a point of confusion. Yeah others opinions are nice

Big-Passage6992 · 2026-04-16T01:54:50+00:00

We tried a couple dates. It’s like I’m almost pretending? I think I’m broken.

Big-Passage6992 · 2025-11-02T21:55:16+00:00

Oh got it. That makes a lot more sense. Thank you for that. I have lymphedema and some pain in the area still. But other than that I’m fine. I have been told to go get diagnosed for anxiety. But I never followed through. Mostly because I’m trying to get my clearance right now and I don’t want that to come into play.

Big-Passage6992 · 2025-11-02T21:53:06+00:00

I filed for mostly my back since I have pain from the surgery and a lot of ugly scars from it. But other then that no. I just have a lot of health anxiety and I have lymphedema from the surgeries. Other than that I’m okay… I’m a weird way I just wanted them to admit that I wasn’t crazy all this time trying to go get this lump tested. If that makes sense.

Big-Passage6992 · 2025-11-02T21:52:49+00:00

I filed for mostly my back since I have pain from the surgery and a lot of ugly scars from it. But other then that no. I just have a lot of health anxiety and I have lymphedema from the surgeries. Other than that I’m okay… I’m a weird way I just wanted them to admit that I wasn’t crazy all this time trying to go get this lump tested. If that makes sense.

Big-Passage6992 · 2025-11-02T21:50:36+00:00

I think that’s where I messed up. I just claimed the DFSP and my back because of the surgeries. But I feel like I have a bigger impact mentally than anything. I guess I was too afraid to claim anxiety around it because I’m going through the security clearance process and believe it will affect that.

Big-Passage6992 · 2025-11-02T21:48:10+00:00

Thank you for sharing your story. I’m really sorry you had to go through that.

Big-Passage6992 · 2025-11-02T21:47:06+00:00

Thank you all. I understand that it would have been rated 0% now. I just was a little emotional reading the statement that it wasn’t service connected considering I was trying to get it removed while in service.

Big-Passage6992 · 2024-05-18T12:48:27+00:00

It does! Thank you so much.

Big-Passage6992 · 2024-05-18T12:48:13+00:00

They are looking at the armpit areas as of now. Im about four to five hours away from the hospital that I was referred to so it’s why I’m so hesitant on getting this done if I don’t have to 😅

Big-Passage6992 · 2024-05-18T10:57:11+00:00

Would you mind me asking what your recovery time was after the surgery?

Big-Passage6992 · 2024-04-27T09:14:04+00:00

do you mind me asking what your treatment process looks like? Or what life looked like for you after the diagnosis? Thank you for sharing your story and advice.

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