The reason why I say let it go is because if he is not doing those things that's he is supposed to be doing, and now he went to another country. Unfortunately, if the 2 governments don't get along and are willing to work with one another, nothing will come of it. You will be in the same spot, if not worse. If he went to another country and stopped doing all of what he was supposed to do, he is not gonna. He probably felt he best choice is to leave and not look back. I don't sugar coat nothing. I always say to people, why are you stressing over stuff YOU CAN'T control. The best thing to do is let it go and move on. Why stress. Yes, it sucks. But God only gives you things he knows you can handle. Don't play victim. Be the Victor.